*Attention all Lesbians in the NYC / NJ area!* Are you ready for quality lesbian events tailored to provide a dynamic, fabulous experience?! Lesbian speed dating & networking is better than ever! Dr. Frankie, founder of Little Gay Book, and Melissa are bringing you social experiences that will leave you wanting MORE! This is a group for women interested in meeting new women in the lesbian and bisexual communities. Our events will focus on singles, couples, women interested in making new friends, and business networking. All lesbian women, bisexual women and their friends are welcome to join this group. This meetup was started to promote an inclusive and vibrant lesbian community in the NYC / NJ area.

Expand your circle of connections and sign up for our monthly lesbian speed dating / networking events. Dive into the world of lesbian dating / social networking and be prepared to release your inhibitions! Our events attract upscale lesbian professionals, artists, writers, hipsters, scene makers and booty shakers! All you have to do is fill out our profile and RSVP to our next event! Easy right?!

In an effort to provide other quality events, we will also promote fundraising and community related events meant to enhance your networking experience!

Join our meetup group to be the first to know of our monthly speeddating events and other quality events @ & Visit for more details!


Dr. Frankie Bashan and Melissa Mendez

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    "Hey there! Please call me Al. :) Relatively new to NYC and loving every minute of it! It's always fun to find new ways to meet people and share experiences and ideas, so here I am! I can't wait!"
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    "Hi, I'm Janine. I'm an easy going, compassionate and funny person. I like the outdoors, trying new things and visiting new places. I'm looking to meet friends and date new people."
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NYC & NJ Lesbian Speed Dating & Networking Events
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