London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • Shaun M.

    Well attended this month. Seemed like a happy crowd as well.

    September 7, 2013

  • Stu D.

    Great to meet you all on Tuesday. Looking forward to next month!

    September 6, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Couldn't make it. Had a friend turn up at the last minute.

    September 4, 2013

  • K A.

    I am gutted. But have been held up with work and can't make it

    September 3, 2013

  • Francis

    Cannot make it this month :-( Hope you all have a good time. See you in October.

    September 2, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Marjorie and I will be sneaking off on holiday then, but I'm sure the others will be delighted to see you again.

      September 3, 2013

    • Francis

      You and Marjorie - both of you have a good holiday!

      September 3, 2013

  • Colin p

    Had a little emergency this afternoon so we shall be a little late, probably arrive around 9-9.30......

    September 3, 2013

  • Will

    Having been introduced to polyamory on a recent holiday in the US, I'm looking to find out more about it

    September 2, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Ask away, we'll do our collective best to help. :-)

      September 3, 2013

  • David B.

    Looking forward to chatting on Tuesday. :-)

    September 1, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      See you tonight then! :-)

      September 3, 2013

  • Ant

    Hello everyone. This is really a Maybe but I will be doing my best to get along for the evening. Hope to see you all. x

    September 1, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Hope to see you - if not this month, there's always next time. :-)

      September 3, 2013

  • penelope

    hi there!
    How do you deal with the matter of time? How do you manage your time between your partners?

    August 30, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      We all three live together, and mostly travel together on holidays. It makes it easier. But it's really the old mantra: communicate, communicate, communicate, negotiate and work out agreements that work for you. As they say, love may be unlimited, time is not. Some people find Google calendars very useful.

      1 · August 30, 2013

  • Andrew S.

    Hiya,

    I've changed my RSVP status to +1, however we won't be able to get there until more like 7.45... is this likely to cause any problems?

    How long will everyone be available for?

    Looking forward to meeting you all!!

    Andrew

    August 29, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Absolutely no problem - get there when you can. People start arriving by 6 after work, stay as long as they feel like and leave when they want. There will likely be some left until closing time, though I often leave before 10. Some folks only turn up at 10!

      August 30, 2013

  • Mark H.

    Sorry we cant attend this month...on the wrong shift at work, bit it was lovely seeing David and Nickie the other weekend and hope all who attend have a great night :-)

    August 28, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Thanks for letting us know - you will be missed, but of course, work must come first! :-)

      1 · August 28, 2013

  • Neall

    Would like to attend but where I will be living is too uncertain at this time. I will confirm as soon as I have confirmation of a place. Warm Regards to all.

    August 25, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Look forward to meeting you!

      August 26, 2013

  • Neall

    I don't think that last introduction to the group was clear about my interest. LOL This is clearer. I want to attend and I will try to make it happen.

    August 25, 2013

  • Colin p

    Hi, am hoping to meet up with some like minded people and learn more about the poly lifestyle. Hoping to make the next meet up.

    August 22, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Welcome to the group - I'd say poly was a lovestyle rather than a lifestyle, personally. You will meet people from many different walks of life and find there are many different ways of living as a poly person! I look forward to meeting you.

      August 23, 2013

    • Colin p

      Thanks Nikkie, were keen to meet like minded people.

      August 23, 2013

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