London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • A former member
    A former member

    Do you guys have/know any kind of meeting that happens on weekends?

    January 8, 2014

    • Shaun M.

      Not at the moment, no. But if Nickie doesn't mind there's nothing to stop you proposing one & publicising it through this group. I ran a summer poly picnic in this was last year for example.

      1 · January 8, 2014

    • nickie{D}

      Hi Paula, Shaun got in first! He's right - if you'd like to suggest a weekend meeting, please do go ahead and offer it. The only time I don't allow things offered is if they are unsuitable. E.g. Kink events, commercial events, or purely sex-based events I don't consider suitable for advertising via this group.

      1 · January 9, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Worked until late... :(

    I'll try very hard to be in the next one!

    January 8, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hi guys! It'll be the first time I'm going, until what time does it usually go? I'll be working so maybe I'll get there kind of late...

    January 1, 2014

    • nickie{D}

      Alison - am indeed on holiday. Think we cancelled last year, didn't the first Tues happen to be 1st Jan?

      January 8, 2014

    • nickie{D}

      Shaun - thanks mate!

      January 8, 2014

  • Alex W.

    Thanks for the Meetup - was a good relaxing atmosphere to hang out in. Will be turning up next month if I can!

    January 8, 2014

    • Alex W.

      And for the record, I have no idea what the "Good to see you" button does, but clicked it for the people I recognised in the list. >_<

      January 8, 2014

  • Alison Wheeler (.

    Gonna try *hard*

    1 · December 19, 2013

    • Shaun M.

      :-( Pity. I was looking forward to seeing you again. In other news the people that used to be Veto are hosting a bash at the usual place on Sat February 1st. Hopefully this might tempt you?

      January 7, 2014

    • Alison Wheeler (.

      ooh - that could be fun. Not sure if I'm in London that weekend or not at the moment, but I shall keep it in mind!

      January 7, 2014

  • Alison Wheeler (.

    Gonna try *hard*

    January 7, 2014

  • David B.

    Hi Paula,
    Welcome to the group and don't worry if the parrots have gone just walk past the bar towards an area that leads to the outside. The tables we are sat at will probably have 'reserved for Nickie' notices. Otherwise just ask as there are bound to be a few die-hards still there.
    XXX David.

    January 2, 2014

  • Marjorie

    Sorry, can't make it this month - away skiing with nickie{D} and davidm. Shaun will be hosting for us and I'm sure will make everyone welcome. See you in February.

    1 · January 1, 2014

    • Arpheel J.

      Same here , I was looking forward to it but then I realised I got an exam coming up. I am sure February one would be much convenient.

      January 1, 2014

  • davidm

    Will miss January's meetup as away on holiday, see you all in February.

    January 1, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    Hi Colin, your question is confusing me somewhat. It sounds as if you are coming under some pressure to become monogamous with someone? Only you can know whether this is likely to work, but at least if poly has been discussed then your potential partner can't be too shocked down the road if you have to tell them it's not working for you. Best wishes!

    December 31, 2013

  • Colin S.

    Anyone else have the potential of a great relationship if they renounced their interest in Poly? Be nice to meet up with like minded Polys. Colin (Devon)

    December 31, 2013

    • Shaun M.

      Colin, not sure what you mean by "like minded". Your comment reads as if Poly hasn't worked for you & you are giving it up. Or am I misunderstanding you?

      December 31, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    I have a free Tuesday for once so should be able to get there earlier.

    1 · December 22, 2013

  • Joseph

    I am unable to make it today, 03/12/13,. Just moved house, so there is some bit of tiding up to do. I definitely would have loved to attend. I need to find out more about poly, I am quite keen. Also may get tips on how to meet ladies with like minds and interest. Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Hopefully, see you in the New Year. Joseph

    December 3, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      I wish you joy and love in your new home! Jan 7th is the date for the first one next year, but Marjorie David and I will be away skiing. It will still be a great night though, I'm sure of it!

      December 3, 2013

    • Joseph

      Thanks Nickie(D), enjoy the skiing and take care. Joseph

      December 3, 2013

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We just grab a coffee and speak French. Some people have been coming every week for months... it creates a kind of warmth to the group.

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