London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • Daria

    It was lovely to pop in even though I run quite late. It was very interesting to meet some new people and talk to those I've spoken to before. Good times.

    May 10

  • Silvia

    It was nice and relaxed. Looking forward the next meeting..

    May 7, 2014

  • Stewart G.

    Hey folks - sorry I left rather surreptitiously. I got called away rather urgently! Good to meet everyone and look forward to the next one :)

    May 7, 2014

    • Sophie

      It was lovely to meet you, and look forward to seeing you at the next one!

      May 7, 2014

    • Stewart G.

      Thanks Sophie. You too.

      May 7, 2014

  • Sophie

    Well that was pretty great.

    2 · May 7, 2014

    • Robin

      Great night, thanks to everyone for your time and honesty. See you next time :D

      1 · May 7, 2014

    • Paul

      Last night was just what I needed to recover from a challenging experience the day before - lovely, warm, open, accepting people and some brilliant discussions.

      3 · May 7, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    Heartfelt thanks to all you lovely people - I can't do it without you!

    2 · May 7, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Didn't get a chance to introduce myself to you. Will get there earlier next time so I can I have time. Great meetup. Thanks!

      1 · May 7, 2014

    • James

      Brilliant evening, and great to meet and speak honestly with so many people. Looking forward to the next one, thanks!

      1 · May 7, 2014

  • Siobhán

    Hi all,

    On the way home last night, Louise found a set of in-ear headphones wrapped round the pedals of her bike. I'm guessing they were either from someone near our table of someone on the bus going home.

    Anyway, if you think they were yours, get in touch and we'll see what we can do to get them back to you (or at least to the next meetup).

    Siobhán

    May 7, 2014

  • Alex W.

    I feel guilty for forgetting your name, but to the man I was talking to outdoors, this is the game I was referring to - weekend after next!
    http://www.megagame-makers.org.uk/megagamet-wts.htm

    May 6, 2014

    • Robin

      Cheers Alex, don't feel guilty, there were ads of people there! Really good to meet you, see you at another sometime or at the game if I can make it :)

      May 7, 2014

  • Crow

    Hopefully I will make it this month

    May 1, 2014

    • Angus

      Would be lovely to chat again :-)

      May 2, 2014

    • Crow

      Sadly it looks like I'm not going to be back in London in time tonight. I hope you all have a good evening ;)

      May 6, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    The parrots have landed! Look for us in the back of the pub, past the bar, towards the doors leading to the outside space.

    May 6, 2014

    • Angelo

      Clocking off too hitching a ride with Ironman

      May 6, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      Hi all, will probably arrive at 19:45. Missed my train : (

      May 6, 2014

  • Claire D

    Unfortunately I can no longer come tonight.

    May 6, 2014

  • Bob

    sorry for changing at the last minute but university decided to throw a mandatory lecture for dormitory students.

    May 6, 2014

  • Ash

    Is there any tube strike on that day???

    May 1, 2014

    • Siobhán

      Depending on direction, there is a good bus service, and it's not far from some rail stations... plus, some tubes will be running.

      1 · May 1, 2014

    • Angus

      Looks like the tube strike has been called off, so it's all clear for the meetup :)

      May 5, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    Yay! Strike called off! Come one, come all! We can spread out I'm sure. :-)

    1 · May 5, 2014

  • Tom L.

    Very likely to make it. Looks like a really busy one this month. We may have to spill out from our corner a bit - could be a bit of a crush.

    May 5, 2014

  • Paul

    I've heard the tube strike has been cancelled.

    May 5, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    I am nervous too! My worst fear is that there will just be an abundance of horny people who do not understand polyamory- there I said it!!! o.0

    1 · April 25, 2014

    • Angelo

      Hello Sophie Apologies if maybe messaging you on the 18 April caused you concern,,, I wrote. " Hi Sophie, noticed you looking for future relationship of the alternative poly type, if it is a longterm type where you hope to gain more benefits from then I would like to talk to you". Did the above cause you any issues?

      1 · May 1, 2014

    • Sophie

      No AJ, it wasn't you!!

      May 1, 2014

  • Nathan

    Sorry got my dates mixed up

    April 27, 2014

  • Nathan

    Cant deal with the stress of the strike so hope to come next time.

    April 27, 2014

  • Robin

    Hi all,
    Just wanted to pitch in with my nerves too. Thanks for the reassurances, they help. Special thanks to nickie for her post to Sophie earlier, it's especially reassuring to see you taking action to protect your members. Looking forward to meeting everybody :D Rx

    April 26, 2014

  • Sophie

    Must admit to being a bit nervous, but looking forward to it!

    1 · April 23, 2014

    • A former member
      A former member

      I am kind of nervous too, I admit.

      1 · April 25, 2014

    • nickie{D}

      Hi Sophie, I saw your comment about being approached persistently by a male the day you joined, if you'd like to tell me more about that I will see what I can do. We don't want people being scared off! Email me! Nickie

      2 · April 26, 2014

  • Angus

    It looks like there may be a tube strike so bear this in mind when making plans to attend.

    April 23, 2014

    • Alex W.

      Thanks for the reminder. :-S

      April 23, 2014

  • A former member
    A former member

    Interested in meeting truly polyamorous people.

    5 · April 22, 2014

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