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London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • Lindsay

    Thanks for last night everyone - as a pair of newbies it was really, really useful to talk with and among people who have a bit more experience. Thanks so much. We're away a lot over the summer and after that we will probably try to find our own way - so you may not see us again but that doesn't mean we didn't have a great time! On the contrary we feel like all our questions were answered :) But we may have more in the future... Much love x

    2 · June 4, 2014

    • Shaun M.

      Even if you don't have questions it would be nice to hear how you get on. So by all means come back & let us know.

      June 4, 2014

    • Lindsay

      Will do :) Thanks Shaun!

      June 5, 2014

  • Mark H.

    Great and, busy evening .....fantastic :-)

    June 4, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    21 people here already - it's going to be a great evening!

    3 · June 3, 2014

    • javi

      great to see you all ...thanks to nickie and co...best meet for me yet! Special hugs to Mark +1 especially, Crow (hugs), connair and Eunice.....and a big "£$$%"£$% to the lady who came and left after being disrespectfully in 5 mins!

      1 · June 4, 2014

    • Mark H.

      Nice meeting you to :-)

      June 4, 2014

  • Em

    Looking forward to my first MeetUp with this group. See you soon!

    2 · June 3, 2014

    • javi

      we missed each other i guess!

      June 4, 2014

  • jumanji

    So so friendly. Everyone made an effort to chat and I felt by the end of the night that i'd made some really great aquaintances. Went alone as many people including women did and all felt the same as me.

    2 · June 4, 2014

  • javi

    anyone coming from west london langley windsor? can provide a lift back

    June 3, 2014

  • Melina M.

    Excited and nervous :-) Good nervous.

    1 · June 3, 2014

    • javi

      thanks..:) lol now u know the guy who doesnt know english very well....u can recognise me :)

      June 3, 2014

  • Osmond D.

    I am into open relationships and believe in karma! This removes the need for having to control other people.

    Also, there is no need for need for negative emotions like jealousy, anger, hatred,possessiveness/ownership.

    Osmond Desilva

    June 1, 2014

    • Osmond D.

      ...........lies, manipulation,...........­........

      June 3, 2014

  • Joseph

    Shall miss out again this time. Got to work and was assigned some task away for tomorrow. Cannot make it to London after. I shall a day off, so I can attend the July 1 meet up. Have fun. :-(

    June 2, 2014

  • Moira M

    Sorry, studying for an exam later this month so not doing too much socialising till it's over! Have fun! x

    June 1, 2014

  • nickie{D}

    Come along to meetups, use the online discussion forums to ask questions, and welcome! Dive right in, there are no crocodiles here. :-)

    1 · May 25, 2014

    • jumanji

      Where are the forums please nickie

      May 31, 2014

    • nickie{D}

      If you click on discussions on our home page you will find them there.

      June 1, 2014

  • Derek M.

    well this is all new for me someone at work suggested i try this site and make new friends to guide me in this wonderful new and enlightening way of living any pointers guys ?

    May 25, 2014

    • Sophie

      Sounds like you have some good colleagues!

      June 1, 2014

    • Sophie

      Get your hands on a copy of The Ethical Slut; it's a good starting place.

      3 · June 1, 2014

  • jumanji

    i'm coming along to my 1st meet this week. bit nervous but looking forward to meeting you all. if anyone happy to chat prior to meet id appreciate this. thanks

    May 29, 2014

    • jumanji

      Thanks both very much

      May 29, 2014

    • Sophie

      Last one was my first too but everyone was lovely. You'll have a great time.

      2 · June 1, 2014

  • K A.

    Sadly, I will be out of the country

    May 29, 2014

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