London Polyamory Meetup Group

Tables are reserved for us - ask at the bar for the tables for Nickie and friends if you can't find us!

This meetup group is for anyone who is interested in openly and honestly loving more than one partner - you may call yourself polyamorous or non-monogamous or any other label you prefer, but if you are interested in having, or currently have multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships where all concerned are consenting and in full knowledge, you are welcome to come along and chat with others who understand those choices.

This is NOT a dating group of singles!  If you are actively looking for a partner, that's fine, but the group is not set up for the purpose of matchmaking, and some of our members are pretty "polysaturated" (i.e. they have as many relationships as they want and are not looking for more!)  I'd hate for anyone to come along expecting that everyone there is looking for new partners and then be disappointed.  If you are looking for new partners, look out for things like Poly Speed Dating nights, and try looking online at, for example, okcupid.com.  Come along and talk to others about how they found their partners, too, if you like.  We are a friendly group and not known to bite.  ;-)

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  • A former member
    A former member

    Flipping busses ! See you soon

    March 5, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Hey there. This will be my first poly meeting. I'm a bit shy and will be there out of curiosity so I hope that is okay. Look forward to meeting you all.

    March 5, 2013

    • Angus

      Everyone has a first meeting. We are a friendly bunch.

      March 5, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Hi India, look for the baby beanie parrot on a table and the big inflatable parrot on the light fitting and you can't fail to find us - come and say hello. we don't bite!

      March 5, 2013

  • Nicko

    I'll be another newbie there too,

    March 5, 2013

  • Rick D

    Looking forward to meeting you all. Like India, my first time too. Hoping to use this event and others to meet more poly people and learn from your experiences.

    March 5, 2013

  • Jessica B.

    Looking forward to meeting you

    1 · March 5, 2013

  • Rimas

    Sorry I'm really ill at the moment but will be at the next one

    March 4, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Work Schedule conflict. Maybe next time :-)

    March 4, 2013

  • Ian

    Another work commitment and I cannot make the meetup, hope for better luck next time

    March 3, 2013

  • Douglas

    Really hope to come to one of these meetups soon! I live in Bristol so it's a bit tricky on a weeknight, but not impossible. I'd have to leave around 9:30 to make it home by train at a reasonable time. Do the meetups properly get underway sevenish, or not really get going until later? Anyway, won't be able to make it in March as I have a gig :)

    February 25, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      There's nearly always someone there before 6 having come straight frm the office, and lots of people arrive before 7 so do come early and leave early - it's fine! I often leave early myself as I'm not too good at late nights.

      February 25, 2013

  • Ian

    Signed up a previous meetup but couldn't make it. This time it is set in stone, think I need to get along this is something I am beginning to accept about myself. I look forward to meeting everyone

    February 18, 2013

  • avi

    i hope this meet up is to get acquainted with the lifestyle/culture and more to socialise and know people. am looking forward to the meeting

    February 15, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Yes, that's exactly what it's about - a social, not a matchmaking evening! There's always an interesting group and usually a sprinkling of people there for the first time too as well as more seasoned travellers who are usually happy to answer questions about how they make it work for themselves.

      February 16, 2013

    • avi

      thanks looking forward

      February 17, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    I noticed on the comments on the last meetup that a few people were not sure where to go. So may I give directions (and ask the organisers to add a note if there are any changes)? We are on the ground floor (sometimes called upstairs, but only because the pub has a ground floor and a basement - so don't try to go up or down any stairs after you come in). Walk towards the back of the pub, going right past the bar (which is on your left as you go past). We are in the area that is as far back in the pub as you can go, just before the french windows that lead out to the outdoors smoking area. This area has about eight tables in it, and we are likely to have colonised five or six of them. There is a circular metal light fitting above the area, and the inflatable parrot may well be perched on this. If the parrot appears to be talking, you need another drink.

    February 8, 2013

    • A former member
      A former member

      Thanks very much Nickie. Now I see my words might cause confusion! "Right past the bar" means all the way past the bar. It doesn't mean turn right after ther bar.

      February 8, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      Richard, no, I wasn't criticising your words at all! I hadn't realised that all the descriptive stuff about the meetup had disappeared. I've just gone and edited it so hopefully it should be back and stay there. I hate it when sites change and you lose info that had previously been in full sight! It also explains why people are getting the wrong idea as all my text about how the site works and the purpose of it had gone!

      February 11, 2013

  • zack g.

    how about some sex action partying and stuff?

    February 5, 2013

    • nickie{D}

      You seem to be confused. This site is about polyamory. What you describe sounds more like swinging. Nothing against it, but it isn't what we're about. Try searching for swinging sites online! There are lots.

      1 · February 8, 2013

  • A former member
    A former member

    Will be on my way through London town and would love to say hello.

    1 · January 13, 2013

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We just grab a coffee and speak French. Some people have been coming every week for months... it creates a kind of warmth to the group.

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