Queer Theory Book Group! Message Board › also, check out this project!
Also, just as an aside, my friend Mel has put together a really fun, neat-looking community resource called The Gender Book. It's colorful, quite extensive, accessible even to a pretty gender-unaware audience, but could be interesting even for those familiar with queer and transgender identities. They are raising funds and doing pre-orders now, so check it out if you're interested!