Is Wisdom Possible in an ADHD World?

Is Wisdom Possible in an ADHD World?

Notes From Chapter 15, Dare to be Wise

‘… step back and think about our frenetic, postmodern, quasi-apocalyptic, multitasking, dual-income, picking up, dropping off, stopping-by, hyphenated, bifurcated, emotionally hectic, intellectually overwhelming, economically challenging and spiritually benumbed lives.’

Eight Pillars of Wisdom from Text

Emotional Regulation – Coping
Knowing What’s Important – Making a Judgment
Moral Reasoning – Right from Wrong
Compassion – Kindness and Empathy
Humility – Perspective Beyond Oneself
Altruism – Social Justice and Fairness
Patience – Delayed Gratification
Dealing With Uncertainty – Handling Change

Dare to Be Wise

Is there a real place for wisdom in the modern world?

Wisdom means so many things it ceases to mean anything

Imaging core values commoditized and repackaged until vapid

Have we wildly overestimated the value of wisdom?

Search for the wise, the sage, just a hope to lose ourselves in the crowd

And is being wise hazardous in our modern world?

Why is wisdom important in our average everydayness and why is it so hard to achieve?

Each person comes to his or her own wisdom via a different route (Montaigne)

Aspiring to wisdom should be … for every motley amalgamation of citizenry

Figuratively hunger for wisdom to forestall spiritual or existential death

Montaigne: to philosophize is to learn or prepare to die

Wisdom in our elders because they are closer to death

From the Unnamed Stoic: ‘… it is a great thing to die honorably, wisely and with constancy’

Constancy feeds a behavioral foundation of wisdom: immense patience, aggregation of knowledge, moral judgment, sense of fairness, and other-centeredness …

Death jostles the viewfinder … it slows the clock for us to glimpse a more distant future

Modern technology and attitude collapses time and manufactures (false) urgency

Only the brave, strong, mindful and the poor (less self-absorbing toys) have a chance at resisting the urge to live faster

Does death circling us cleave decisions and behaviors that provide us aspirations to be wise?

Wisdom counsels a goodness that extends beyond the membrane of ego and self-interests

Wisdom gives us a chance to be both selfless and self-improved

Daring to be wise leaves us better off to surmount many things

Future of wisdom a distant and elusive utopian kind of aspiration

Oscar Wilde: A map of the world that does not include Utopia is not worth even glancing at

Emerson: Wisdom builds out ‘secret currents of might and mind.’

Wisdom may be just an aspiration wrapped in mystery. If it loses its mystery, it eludes us


Discussion Points for Meet Up:

In trying to ‘define’ wisdom as some have asked us to do at our meeting, is it not most appropriate to say it is like Potter Stewart and porno: I know it when I see it?

Do modern distractions like personal devices that have infested our lives really create a mountain between us and the possibility of wisdom?

Is the perspective of death really necessary to attain wisdom and as we avoid at all costs thinking about death, is this one of the reasons we avoid daring to be wise?

Does a filter-feeding knowledge base that moves faster and faster in our modern times kill the possibility of avoiding the self-absorption we must throw aside to be wise?

Is the ‘mystery’ of wisdom, its elusive nature, a barrier in our modern times to the point where few from our modern developed world will ever be considered wise in the future?

To All the Wise Thinkers

Last year I read this nice book contemplating what it means to be wise. I bet this is a notion that most Thinkers aspire for but, as I know in my own short time here and there, fail miserably at the task. That doesn’t mean that I still do not aspire.

But when we think of wisdom, we normally ponder a contemplative mindset where a lifetime of learning opportunities coalesce into a state of mind where someone can help others through a ‘whole is greater than the sum of its parts’ collective that a wise person has available and communicates through.

To center our discussion, I would like to go over elements of the book ‘Wisdom: from Philosophy to Neuroscience’ by Stephen H Hall that I offer a link to the NY Times book review article below that certainly captures the tone if not the essence of the materials offered.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/14/books/review/Holt-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

And if you happen to get your hands on this book, please concentrate on final chapter, ‘Dare to Be Wise: Does Wisdom Have a Future?’

This is the theme I would like to focus the discussion on. I feel we live in times where the contemplative mindset we ascribe to the wise is becoming less possible and held in lower esteem in a world I feel is obsessed with a constantly flowing ADHD consciousness where we filter feed often mindlessly through incomprehensible factoids with time only to await the next pile of factoids.

Can wisdom survive in this modern tidal wave of ‘stuff’ where we do not take the time to really understand anything and those that do are somehow lost in an irrelevant vapor trail from the jet stream of a culture hurtling forward fearfully.

Please come to this discussion and proudly proclaim that you are one of those nerds lost in that vapor trail and have some ideas on how the wise can rise again.

The Dork

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  • Linda

    Yes, I see no problem with twice a month. Maybe one of the days could be on the weekend so people who have to work nights can come.

    January 22, 2013

  • Bob M.

    Multiple points of view made the discussion rich and good listening skills and a tone of respect added to the enjoyment.

    1 · January 22, 2013

  • Bharat P.

    http://thebrowser.com/files/essays/Disequilibrium.pdf

    http://www.edge.org/

    These 2 links make interesting reading in considering answer to the questions raised yesterday.
    Any thoughts on holding the meetings twice a month?

    January 22, 2013

    • Evelyn

      I think twice a month would be too much. While it is true that you can't keep brain muscle toned with only once-a-month workouts, give people credit for continuing to exercise on their own. :-) It occurs to me that in our discussion of wisdom, we strayed repeate4dly into one area of confusion: wisdom does not necessarily make you happy .

      1 · January 22, 2013

  • Jim P.

    Eh, what? I was distracted for a bit.
    But seriously, a more disciplined and rigorously logical process in our analytical approach to philosophical questions is always a good thing.

    January 22, 2013

  • Wayne S.

    As a representative of the ADHD community, I felt that tonight's discussion did not necessarily conclusively rule out the possibility of the existence of wisdom.

    January 22, 2013

  • Evelyn

    Excellent. We covered a range of approaches and interpretations.

    January 21, 2013

  • Linda

    Hi, I've been working long hours and usually don't get off work before 8 or 9 pm, so I haven't been able to make the meetings. I finished my book Dangerous Wishcraft: Religion and Mental Health and have formed a contact group to keep people notified about the progress my publisher is making, and also to share short clips from the book. Anyone who is interested (that's everyone on this list) please send me your email addresses and I'll add you. You can unsubscribe at any time if you change your mind. [masked]

    1 · January 12, 2013

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