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The Understand Men San Diego PAX community is led by a group of generous, appreciative and contributing volunteers whose lives have been profoundly impacted by the education we have received through PAX Programs.

Our community hosts free educational and social events for both men and women. We are committed to helping others have more rewarding relationships by providing extraordinary information with which men and women can profoundly affect their relationships in all circumstances, regardless or age or marital status.

PAX Programs has been opening hearts and minds of both men and women since 1995. PAX is the Latin word for “peace” and is an acronym for Partnership, Adoration and Xtasy, between the sexes.

More than 20,000 women have experienced the "Celebrating Men Satisfying Women" workshop (now "The Queen's Code") along with over 2000 men joining them at the phenomenal Co-Ed "Understanding Women, Unlock the Mystery".

For Women: You will rediscover MEN with compassion, understanding, and the ability to get what you need with less effort and more satisfaction for both of you.

PAX's flagship program, Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women ®, (The Queen's Code) is a weekend educational workshop for women, which transforms the way women relate to men, and teaches the skills necessary for women to realize powerful, satisfying relationships with all of the men in their lives.

For Men: We host co-ed events for men to join us to learn more about women and how to create and experience more fulfilling and rewarding relationships. PAX has several weekend workshops for men, including A Hero's Challenge: Being an Extraordinary Man® and Understanding Women: Unlock the Mystery® (The Queen's Code Challenge: Understanding Women).

If you would like to learn more, check out the Free Stuff section with Alison Armstrong at

Hope to see you soon at one of our events!

Understand Men San Diego Volunteer Team

Understand Men San Diego gratefully accepts donations to help cover the group's costs so we can continue to be a free resource for the community. Your donation covers the yearly fee, room rental for our free public events, supplies provided at free events, and scholarships if funds allow. Donations are also accepted at any of our meetups. Thank you for your support!

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