10 things to do and stop doing to transform your relationship.
Relating is one the 10 Keys to Happiness, and being 'in-love' is a powerful way of Relating.
While most of us desire being in love, we face many hurdles in taking the actions that allow love to flow freely throughout our lives and relationships. We have many ways of defending ourselves against love, and struggle to give and receive love with ease, openness and vulnerability.
Lilliana is a counsellor at The Red Couch in Lewes.
she also says:
Long term relationships are not for the faint-hearted. We need to be be able to keep our balance when our partner loses theirs. We need to face our shadows and demons, be willing to challenge ourselves and be prepared to grow up. The good news is that a committed relationship is an ideal opportunity to do this.
see also: http://www.actionforhappinessbrighton.org.uk/