Until we had David Richo’s 5As (“How to be an Adult in Love (http://smile.amazon.com/How-Be-Adult-Love-Recklessly/dp/1611800811/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1459105893&sr=8-2&keywords=david+richo+how+to+be+an+adult+in+love)”), we had no vocabulary to help us understand loving. When loving is wrong, personality disorders develop: narcissism, anti-social, borderline, co-dependency, entanglements. Despite what we had, our thinking, our understanding was muddled. It seemed like something we needed was missing. Knowing the 5As, we can now identify what that need is and how to ask for what we want. This course extends that knowledge with a vocabulary that clarifies the 5 ways the 5As work on the 5 aspects of our identity to bring us 5 pleasures and 5 happinesses for our 5 basic needs. You will see how the 5 languages of love and the 5Fs of traumatic response are similarly connected. You will better understand the nurturing of the 5 presences of parenting and, therefore, the cravings you may have. You will learn the importance of connecting and building rapport in all 5 ways. In other words, the magic number for a fulfilled, self-actualized, balanced life is 5, and with this course you will finally have the understanding, the education and the vocabulary you have always needed to be fully happy 5 ways.