WELCOME! We are a diverse community who is passionate about conscious sexuality, intimacy, and the Erotic Blueprints™. This is a safe container for exploring healthy, holistic, pleasurable, and consensual sex.
DID YOU KNOW • Sexual incompatibility with someone you care about is a MYTH! • You have a SEXUAL PERSONALITY, similar to the Five Love Languages or the Nine Types of the Enneagram. • Enjoying sexual pleasure is your BIRTHRIGHT.
JOIN if you want to • IGNITE passion in your relationship! • Learn how you and your partner are wired for sexual pleasure. • Develop EPIC intimacy with your partner! • For singles - be prepared for your next partner! • Have explosive orgasms, even though the sexual chemistry is waning after 5, 10, 20+ years of marriage. • Explore how the Enneagram (personality growth tool) can be used to enhance Love, Sex, and Intimacy.
WHY JOIN You will be notified of events around Boulder and surrounding areas that involve the Erotic Blueprints™ and other aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality. Meet great people who share this passion, have fun becoming a better person, a better lover!
WE ASK THAT YOU • Accept others who may be different from you • Only engage in and support enthusiastically consensual sexual activities
TO JOIN YOU CAN BE • Monogamous • Ethically Non-Monogamous • Waiting until marriage before exploring sex • Kink-friendly • Traditional or non-traditional relationships • Single • Celibate • Poly-friendly • Anywhere in the LGBTQIA+ spectrum • Straight • Cis-gender • Atheist, pagan, Jewish, Buddhist, Christian, spiritual, or any religion that teaches love • Bored with your sex life and want to continue growing in love and intimacy with your partner
The organizer, Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., is a certified and licensed Erotic Blueprints™ coach. As an Enneagram instructor he teaches personal growth. He is a sex-positive, LGBT-embracing Christian who believes that Jesus embraces all lifestyles involving enthusiastically consensual sexual activities. He officiates weddings and does pre-marital preparation for engaged couples. He is a former Roman Catholic priest who embraces an eclectic spirituality.
Be respectful and kind. No attacking, shaming, or unsolicited sexual advances will be tolerated in this group.