Cape Fear Singles (CFS) grew out of eight friends that wanted to share fun and companionship throughout the week. It was named: Cape Fear Singles (CFS) and opened to all singles on January 19th, 2005. We are also on Facebook.
We have grown into an easy-going, casual, friendly group of singles, located in and around Wilmington, N.C., always in search of our next adventure.
We enjoy getting together on an almost daily basis, participating in interesting Events and activities regularly. We, as a group or individually, attend public Events. But we also have many just-for-CFS-Events. Over our past 12 years, we have Hosted over 3,700 Events!
We try to plan a variety of interesting activities and fun Events every month. Some Events are specifically set up to include children and/or pets. Our Events are designed to promote interaction between members and provide an opportunity to make new friends.
To become a member you request to join CFS, answer five general questions about who you are, where you came from, etc. and upload a picture of yourself that clearly shows yourself. Your picture must be recognizable. The #1 reason a person is declined membership is because their picture does not meet our standard. Pictures of pets, babies, sunsets, cars, boats, etc. are all nice, but they won't get you approved as a member.
When you become a member, check our: Calendar, Discussions and Photos tabs to gather more information about our activities. These tabs are located along top of our Cape Fear Singles Home Page. Calendar is on the left side.
Please note: We are not a dating site. Dating among members is not prohibited (members may date) but please don't join thinking that is what we are about. We Are Not A Dating Site !
We have five rules you should know about:
#1) We do not allow commercial businesses to be members. No advertising of any kind is allowed. You can tell members what you do for a living but you may not solicit business. We are not a business networking site.
#2) No member may bother, annoy or harass another member.
#3) No bad language is allowed, at an Event or in written form.
#4) You, as a member of CFS, represent ALL of us. So you must behave appropriately.
#5) If you RSVP for an Event, you are responsible for updating your RSVP if your plans change. This is especially important where we only have a limited number of openings for that Event. For example, restaurants want to know if 50 CFS are going to attend a dinner so they can add staff to provide good service (wait staff & in the kitchen).
So please be considerate and update your RSVP at least 24 hours before the Event if your plans change. We have grown to the point where we have to limit how many may attend some Events -- so if you reserve a spot (RSVP) you may prevent another member from attending.
Since we enjoy a great reputation in this town, it is important that we are welcomed (and welcomed back). So, if any member breaks any of the rules above, they will get ONE warning. If they do not straighten up and fly right after that they will be banned from ever being a member again. No second chance and no appeal process.
Feel free to join us at any upcoming Event. We have an on-going monthly 3rd Thursday Happy Hour *and* New Member Welcome. That is a great way to meet a # of our members all @ once.
One last important point-->> We want our member #'s to be accurate, so we will delete anyone who does not sign in @ least once per 90 days. You don't have to attend an Event, (but why join if you don't want to attend an Event ?) You must sign in within each 90 day period to remain a member. This keeps our membership #'s accurate (unlike many other MeetUps in ILM).
We want CFS members to participate, enjoy, meet & make new friends, etc. Why join if you are not going to take advantage of the wonderful town we live in -&- the opportunities it has to offer?
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions --
(Last Updated: 07/20/2016)
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