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Information and support group – and "Resistance to Boundaries" ⑦
Are you tired of saying "yes" when you want to say "no"? Of having other people's priorities consume your time and energy? Of doing things for others you know they should be doing for themselves? Have other people rolled over you in relationships? Do you feel guilty standing up for yourself and your wants and needs? If you're nodding "yes" to any of these questions, then you need to join us for this life-changing video/book series with Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend. "Boundaries" will change the way you choose, manage and build all the relationships in your life. Weekly schedule for this series: Session 1: Introduction Session 2: Boundary Problems / Boundary Development Sessions 3+4: Ten Laws of Boundaries Session 5: Myths about Boundaries Session 6: A Course of Recovery Session 7: Resistance to Boundaries Session 8: Measuring Success / A Day in the Life You are welcome without regard to your relationship type or situation, timeline, circumstances or faith background. Learn more about our weekly meetings below. ➜ Finding us: We meet at Redwood Chapel at 19300 Redwood Road in Castro Valley - but parking is on the other side of the church, and the lots are accessible from Heyer Avenue or James Avenue ➜ Our meetings are offered free of charge, but would appreciate a donation of $10 per meeting, made either in person (via cash or check) or through a monthly online donation at: ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈ RECENT VIDEOS: For participants that have missed a session of a recent series, or would like to view one again, we've temporarily posted them as follows: • recent sessions of our current "Boundaries" series[masked] • selected sessions of our recent series "Rescue Your Love Life" • selected sessions of all our video series ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈ OUR WEEKLY MEETINGS: We gather each week from 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm. After a brief introduction, we see a video (or at other times of the year, hear from a live speaker) until about 6:00. Then after an overview of our program and some introductions and announcements, we take a short break and go into smaller groups at about 5:15 for the remainder of the meeting. We have a special group for newcomers and visitors, support groups, and discussion groups. We welcome anyone and everyone dealing with relationship challenges, separation or divorce, whether happening now, in the past, or perhaps approaching. People of any faith background, or without one, are welcome. ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈ ABOUT OUR MEETUP GROUP: There are no fees or membership requirements for this program. You do not have to have a Meetup account to attend. If you do have a free Meetup account and join our Meetup group, you'll get automatic reminder messages about our meetings and other news you may need. It would be great if you'd click "Yes" if you're coming to this and future meetings. That makes our group more visible on Meetup, and encourages others to come. ┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈┈ BAY AREA NEW BEGINNINGS: You may be interested in this separate but related Meetup group, open to all current and past participants in Bay Area Divorce and Relationship Recovery groups. It's about fun, social events with other emotionally healthy (or at least healing) people. Learn more about Bay Area New Beginnings at

Redwood Chapel Community Church

19300 Redwood Road · Castro Valley, CA

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Welcome to Divorce and Relationship Recovery Castro Valley. This is one of several no-charge, weekly information/support communities intended for anyone dealing with separation, divorce, or other relationship challenges or losses.

Our meetings take place on Sunday afternoons at 4:00 pm at Redwood Chapel, at 19300 Redwood Road in Castro Valley.

During the first part of each weekly meeting, we view a video or hear from a live expert on some topic related to the divorce/separation/loss experience. The second part of each meeting will include supportive, confidential smaller group time, to reflect on what we've learned and what we're dealing with.

We help people through the emotional, spiritual, psychological, legal, financial, health and child-related issues related to divorce and broken relationships. We welcome everyone, without regard to circumstances, timeline or faith background.

We use many of the same materials as in our other communities, including books and videos from psychologists Dr. Henry Cloud and John Townsend ("Boundaries," "Changes that Heal." "Safe People"), Andy Stanley ("Starting Over," "The New Rules for Love, Sex and Dating") and other experts. Between these and other video series, live speakers will include psychologists, therapists, and attorneys presenting practical, actionable information to heal and begin putting your life together again.

There are no fees or registration or membership requirements. With a free Meetup account, you are welcome to join our online group, which will provide additional information about our group and our events. We hope to see you soon at one of our meetings!

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