What we're about

πŸ”΄ For the duration of the coronavirus crisis, please be sure to check our Meetup events page https://www.meetup.com/DRR-Lubbock/events (https://www.meetup.com/DRR-Castro-Valley/events) before starting your trip to any of our meetings or events.

Welcome to Divorce and Relationship Recovery. This is one of several no-charge, weekly information/support communities intended for anyone dealing with separation, divorce, or other relationship challenges or losses. Before the COVID crisis, the group met every Tuesday evening in Lubbock, Texas, but since "going virtual" with Zoom, we've opened it to everyone in the great state of Texas!

During the first part of each weekly meeting, we view a video or hear from a live expert on some topic related to the divorce/separation/loss experience. The second part of each meeting will include supportive, confidential smaller group time, to reflect on what we've learned and what we're dealing with.

We help people through the emotional, spiritual, psychological, legal, financial, health and child-related issues related to divorce and broken relationships. We welcome everyone, without regard to circumstances, timeline or faith background.

We use many of the same materials as in our other communities, including books and videos from psychologists Dr. Henry Cloud and John Townsend ("Boundaries," "Changes that Heal," "Safe People"), Andy Stanley ("Starting Over," "The New Rules for Love, Sex and Dating") and other experts. Between these and other video series, live speakers will include psychologists, therapists, and attorneys presenting practical, actionable information to heal and begin putting your life together again.

You can see selected sessions of the videos we use at http://www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/selected-videos

There are no fees or registration or membership requirements. With a free Meetup account, you are welcome to join our online group, which will provide additional information about our group and our events. We hope to see you soon at one of our meetings!

Learn about other Divorce and Relationship Recovery communities at:

www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/find-a-group

Thank you for your interest in Divorce and Relationship Recovery!

Upcoming events (4+)

'How We Love' – and information/support group

Online event

π–π„π‹π‚πŽπŒπ„!
We'd love to see you at today's meeting. We welcome everyone dealing with divorce or other relationship struggles, or wanting to learn healthy relationship skills. The main parts of our weekly meetings are a video or guest speaker, and time for discussion and confidential sharing and support. You are welcome without regard to relationship status, timeline or background.

π“πŽπƒπ€π˜'𝐒 π“πŽππˆπ‚
Identify the sources of relationship missteps, and learn what you can do about them. In this series, Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs and expectations of all your relationships. They identify five types of injured imprints that often trap couples in destructive, repetitive patterns. Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships, and find your way to richer ones for yourself.

See what the authors' online attachment style quiz www.howwelove.com/love-style-quiz says about you!

This nine-session video series brings their book β€œHow We Love” to life, and also includes information not found in the book. Kay and Milan share personal stories, perform live therapy, and demonstrate a β€œHolding Time” to help you visualize how to apply this material.

Here's an overview of the nine sessions of this series:

β‘  Introduction β€’ Comfort Question β€’ Bonding Circles

β‘‘ The "Avoider" Attachment Style

β‘’ The "Pleaser" Attachment Style

β‘£ The "Vacillator" Attachment Style

β‘€ The "Controller" and "Victim" Attachment Styles

β‘₯ Style Combinations, the Comfort Circle, Listening and Speaking

⑦ Therapy, Extended Listening and the Comfort Circle

⑧ Therapy, Dating, and Holding Time

⑨ Questions and Answers

Please note that the owners of this material have asked us not to post archive copies online, so you'll need to attend our Wednesday or Sunday Zoom sessions, or purchase the DVDs for yourself at www.howwelove.com

π•πˆπ„π– 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐍𝐓 π•πˆπƒπ„πŽπ’
If you've missed a recent video session or would like to view one again, please visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/selected-videos

π‹πŽπ† 𝐈𝐍 π“π‡π‘πŽπ”π†π‡ π™πŽπŽπŒ
The meeting code for our Sunday group is[masked] (one seven seven, three nine zero, two zero nine) If you don't already have a Zoom account, follow this link to set one up and download the application (it only takes a few minutes), and be ready for this meeting:
https://zoom.us/j/177390209 (The Zoom meeting will be live for at least 15 minutes before the meeting start time.) A similar group meets on Wednesdays, and you are welcome to come to either one. At this time, the Sunday group follows the same topic as the Wednesday one that precedes it. For login details, visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/virtual

𝐍𝐄𝐖 ππ„π†πˆπππˆππ†π’ π’πŽπ‚πˆπ€π‹ 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒
Our social spin-off group offers fun events all year long and we'd love to see you there, too. Learn about our upcoming events at https://www.meetup.com/bay-area-new-beginnings

ππŽπ–π„π‘ πŽπ”π‘ π‹πˆπ…π„-π‚π‡π€ππ†πˆππ† π–πŽπ‘πŠ
It's not too late to start thinking about your charitable giving plans for the end of 2021. We hope everyone will at least become a 2021 Supporting Member of our cause, and you can do that today at www.bit.ly/drrn-donate, or by texting the word "give" to[masked]. When giving online, you can set up an automatic monthly gift and not have to lift another finger to support us! Divorce and Relationship Recovery Network is an IRS-certified 501(c)(3) charitable organization, and your donations will be acknowledged via e-mail, and in a year-end report you can use for income tax purposes. Thank you in advance for your support!

πƒπŽπ'𝐓 πŒπˆπ’π’ πŽπ”π“
The best way to know what's coming up is to add yourself to our text list for this group. You can do that at http://bit.ly/text-list-add

'How We Love' – and information/support group

Online event

π–π„π‹π‚πŽπŒπ„!
We'd love to see you at today's meeting. We welcome everyone dealing with divorce or other relationship struggles, or wanting to learn healthy relationship skills. The main parts of our weekly meetings are a video or guest speaker, and time for discussion and confidential sharing and support. You are welcome without regard to relationship status, timeline or background.

π“πŽπƒπ€π˜'𝐒 π“πŽππˆπ‚
Identify the sources of relationship missteps, and learn what you can do about them. In this series, Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs and expectations of all your relationships. They identify five types of injured imprints that often trap couples in destructive, repetitive patterns. Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships, and find your way to richer ones for yourself.

See what the authors' online attachment style quiz www.howwelove.com/love-style-quiz says about you!

This nine-session video series brings their book β€œHow We Love” to life, and also includes information not found in the book. Kay and Milan share personal stories, perform live therapy, and demonstrate a β€œHolding Time” to help you visualize how to apply this material.

Here's an overview of the nine sessions of this series:

β‘  Introduction β€’ Comfort Question β€’ Bonding Circles

β‘‘ The "Avoider" Attachment Style

β‘’ The "Pleaser" Attachment Style

β‘£ The "Vacillator" Attachment Style

β‘€ The "Controller" and "Victim" Attachment Styles

β‘₯ Style Combinations, the Comfort Circle, Listening and Speaking

⑦ Therapy, Extended Listening and the Comfort Circle

⑧ Therapy, Dating, and Holding Time

⑨ Questions and Answers

Please note that the owners of this material have asked us not to post archive copies online, so you'll need to attend our Wednesday or Sunday Zoom sessions, or purchase the DVDs for yourself at www.howwelove.com

π•πˆπ„π– 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐍𝐓 π•πˆπƒπ„πŽπ’
If you've missed a recent video session or would like to view one again, please visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/selected-videos

π‹πŽπ† 𝐈𝐍 π“π‡π‘πŽπ”π†π‡ π™πŽπŽπŒ
The meeting code for our Sunday group is[masked] (one seven seven, three nine zero, two zero nine) If you don't already have a Zoom account, follow this link to set one up and download the application (it only takes a few minutes), and be ready for this meeting:
https://zoom.us/j/177390209 (The Zoom meeting will be live for at least 15 minutes before the meeting start time.) A similar group meets on Wednesdays, and you are welcome to come to either one. At this time, the Sunday group follows the same topic as the Wednesday one that precedes it. For login details, visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/virtual

𝐍𝐄𝐖 ππ„π†πˆπππˆππ†π’ π’πŽπ‚πˆπ€π‹ 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒
Our social spin-off group offers fun events all year long and we'd love to see you there, too. Learn about our upcoming events at https://www.meetup.com/bay-area-new-beginnings

ππŽπ–π„π‘ πŽπ”π‘ π‹πˆπ…π„-π‚π‡π€ππ†πˆππ† π–πŽπ‘πŠ
It's not too late to start thinking about your charitable giving plans for the end of 2021. We hope everyone will at least become a 2021 Supporting Member of our cause, and you can do that today at www.bit.ly/drrn-donate, or by texting the word "give" to[masked]. When giving online, you can set up an automatic monthly gift and not have to lift another finger to support us! Divorce and Relationship Recovery Network is an IRS-certified 501(c)(3) charitable organization, and your donations will be acknowledged via e-mail, and in a year-end report you can use for income tax purposes. Thank you in advance for your support!

πƒπŽπ'𝐓 πŒπˆπ’π’ πŽπ”π“
The best way to know what's coming up is to add yourself to our text list for this group. You can do that at http://bit.ly/text-list-add

'How We Love' – and information/support group

Online event

π–π„π‹π‚πŽπŒπ„!
We'd love to see you at today's meeting. We welcome everyone dealing with divorce or other relationship struggles, or wanting to learn healthy relationship skills. The main parts of our weekly meetings are a video or guest speaker, and time for discussion and confidential sharing and support. You are welcome without regard to relationship status, timeline or background.

π“πŽπƒπ€π˜'𝐒 π“πŽππˆπ‚
Identify the sources of relationship missteps, and learn what you can do about them. In this series, Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs and expectations of all your relationships. They identify five types of injured imprints that often trap couples in destructive, repetitive patterns. Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships, and find your way to richer ones for yourself.

See what the authors' online attachment style quiz www.howwelove.com/love-style-quiz says about you!

This nine-session video series brings their book β€œHow We Love” to life, and also includes information not found in the book. Kay and Milan share personal stories, perform live therapy, and demonstrate a β€œHolding Time” to help you visualize how to apply this material.

Here's an overview of the nine sessions of this series:

β‘  Introduction β€’ Comfort Question β€’ Bonding Circles

β‘‘ The "Avoider" Attachment Style

β‘’ The "Pleaser" Attachment Style

β‘£ The "Vacillator" Attachment Style

β‘€ The "Controller" and "Victim" Attachment Styles

β‘₯ Style Combinations, the Comfort Circle, Listening and Speaking

⑦ Therapy, Extended Listening and the Comfort Circle

⑧ Therapy, Dating, and Holding Time

⑨ Questions and Answers

Please note that the owners of this material have asked us not to post archive copies online, so you'll need to attend our Wednesday or Sunday Zoom sessions, or purchase the DVDs for yourself at www.howwelove.com

π•πˆπ„π– 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐍𝐓 π•πˆπƒπ„πŽπ’
If you've missed a recent video session or would like to view one again, please visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/selected-videos

π‹πŽπ† 𝐈𝐍 π“π‡π‘πŽπ”π†π‡ π™πŽπŽπŒ
The meeting code for our Sunday group is[masked] (one seven seven, three nine zero, two zero nine) If you don't already have a Zoom account, follow this link to set one up and download the application (it only takes a few minutes), and be ready for this meeting:
https://zoom.us/j/177390209 (The Zoom meeting will be live for at least 15 minutes before the meeting start time.) A similar group meets on Wednesdays, and you are welcome to come to either one. At this time, the Sunday group follows the same topic as the Wednesday one that precedes it. For login details, visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/virtual

𝐍𝐄𝐖 ππ„π†πˆπππˆππ†π’ π’πŽπ‚πˆπ€π‹ 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒
Our social spin-off group offers fun events all year long and we'd love to see you there, too. Learn about our upcoming events at https://www.meetup.com/bay-area-new-beginnings

ππŽπ–π„π‘ πŽπ”π‘ π‹πˆπ…π„-π‚π‡π€ππ†πˆππ† π–πŽπ‘πŠ
It's not too late to start thinking about your charitable giving plans for the end of 2021. We hope everyone will at least become a 2021 Supporting Member of our cause, and you can do that today at www.bit.ly/drrn-donate, or by texting the word "give" to[masked]. When giving online, you can set up an automatic monthly gift and not have to lift another finger to support us! Divorce and Relationship Recovery Network is an IRS-certified 501(c)(3) charitable organization, and your donations will be acknowledged via e-mail, and in a year-end report you can use for income tax purposes. Thank you in advance for your support!

πƒπŽπ'𝐓 πŒπˆπ’π’ πŽπ”π“
The best way to know what's coming up is to add yourself to our text list for this group. You can do that at http://bit.ly/text-list-add

'How We Love' – and information/support group

Online event

π–π„π‹π‚πŽπŒπ„!
We'd love to see you at today's meeting. We welcome everyone dealing with divorce or other relationship struggles, or wanting to learn healthy relationship skills. The main parts of our weekly meetings are a video or guest speaker, and time for discussion and confidential sharing and support. You are welcome without regard to relationship status, timeline or background.

π“πŽπƒπ€π˜'𝐒 π“πŽππˆπ‚
Identify the sources of relationship missteps, and learn what you can do about them. In this series, Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs and expectations of all your relationships. They identify five types of injured imprints that often trap couples in destructive, repetitive patterns. Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships, and find your way to richer ones for yourself.

See what the authors' online attachment style quiz www.howwelove.com/love-style-quiz says about you!

This nine-session video series brings their book β€œHow We Love” to life, and also includes information not found in the book. Kay and Milan share personal stories, perform live therapy, and demonstrate a β€œHolding Time” to help you visualize how to apply this material.

Here's an overview of the nine sessions of this series:

β‘  Introduction β€’ Comfort Question β€’ Bonding Circles

β‘‘ The "Avoider" Attachment Style

β‘’ The "Pleaser" Attachment Style

β‘£ The "Vacillator" Attachment Style

β‘€ The "Controller" and "Victim" Attachment Styles

β‘₯ Style Combinations, the Comfort Circle, Listening and Speaking

⑦ Therapy, Extended Listening and the Comfort Circle

⑧ Therapy, Dating, and Holding Time

⑨ Questions and Answers

Please note that the owners of this material have asked us not to post archive copies online, so you'll need to attend our Wednesday or Sunday Zoom sessions, or purchase the DVDs for yourself at www.howwelove.com

π•πˆπ„π– 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐄𝐍𝐓 π•πˆπƒπ„πŽπ’
If you've missed a recent video session or would like to view one again, please visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/selected-videos

π‹πŽπ† 𝐈𝐍 π“π‡π‘πŽπ”π†π‡ π™πŽπŽπŒ
The meeting code for our Sunday group is[masked] (one seven seven, three nine zero, two zero nine) If you don't already have a Zoom account, follow this link to set one up and download the application (it only takes a few minutes), and be ready for this meeting:
https://zoom.us/j/177390209 (The Zoom meeting will be live for at least 15 minutes before the meeting start time.) A similar group meets on Wednesdays, and you are welcome to come to either one. At this time, the Sunday group follows the same topic as the Wednesday one that precedes it. For login details, visit www.divorceandrelationshiprecovery.org/virtual

𝐍𝐄𝐖 ππ„π†πˆπππˆππ†π’ π’πŽπ‚πˆπ€π‹ 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐒
Our social spin-off group offers fun events all year long and we'd love to see you there, too. Learn about our upcoming events at https://www.meetup.com/bay-area-new-beginnings

ππŽπ–π„π‘ πŽπ”π‘ π‹πˆπ…π„-π‚π‡π€ππ†πˆππ† π–πŽπ‘πŠ
It's not too late to start thinking about your charitable giving plans for the end of 2021. We hope everyone will at least become a 2021 Supporting Member of our cause, and you can do that today at www.bit.ly/drrn-donate, or by texting the word "give" to[masked]. When giving online, you can set up an automatic monthly gift and not have to lift another finger to support us! Divorce and Relationship Recovery Network is an IRS-certified 501(c)(3) charitable organization, and your donations will be acknowledged via e-mail, and in a year-end report you can use for income tax purposes. Thank you in advance for your support!

πƒπŽπ'𝐓 πŒπˆπ’π’ πŽπ”π“
The best way to know what's coming up is to add yourself to our text list for this group. You can do that at http://bit.ly/text-list-add

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