What we're about

We are fabulous 'well-aged' women, 40+, who enjoy socializing in San Francisco. We welcome ALL women who identify as gay, bisexual, lesbian [questioning, on the spectrum]. If you identify as andro, butch, femme, fluid [or none of the above]- you are welcome. Single, couples and "complicated" - you are welcome.

Let's get together for fun events and connections together, in our fair City by the Bay! Please do mix and mingle during our events, meeting our members- and other friendly folks at the venue. NOTE: Our Meetups will be for members and *women* plus-one guests. Thanks!

In this era of insane politics, etc, let's share fun, joyful banter, respectful deep conversation and new friendships together!

A few requests:

--Because we are a diverse group of women, please do leave judgments at the door. Please bring an open mind (and plenty of bills to tip the bartender)!

--Please provide your first name and a recognizable photo of yourself in your profile. We want to find each other at events, and get to know each other "live and in person". Also adds to the security of the group.

--Please do make these Meet-ups a priority, so our group can thrive and grow. If you cannot make a particular event, update your RSVP as *SOON* as you can. This helps me keep an accurate headcount for each event, which helps me plan for future events . Merci beaucoup!

--Please support our venues by observing any drink minimums- and play nice!- so that our group is **enthusiastically** welcomed back to each venue. Danke!

--And If you consume alcohol at an event, please ensure you can get yourself home safely.

See you soon - Linda.

Upcoming events (5)

Castro Thai food & Karaoke!

Thailand Restaurant

Let's meet for early dinner at Thailand Restaurant. We’ll then head over to Toad Hall for drinks and some songs! KJ Paul has a REALLY great song list. If you love to sing along to popular tunes, come join us for the fun! Please arrive 6:45pm, plan to order by 7pm. Karaoke starts at 8pm. Please please bring cash/bills, so we can easily split the check- avoiding individual checks, por favor. Thanks gals! https://m.yelp.com/biz/thailand-restaurant-san-francisco https://kjpaul.com/b/ http://www.toadhallbar.com

Sat 9/21: Stern Grove!

Sigmund Stern Recreation Grove

Come to lovely Stern Grove, for a easy ‘finger food’ picnic! Optional walk to the lake/dog play area afterwards. Please do bring your well-socialized dogs, frisbee, etc. Rain will cancel. Look for us in the area pictured above. The picnic tables might be removed, so we will spread blankets, etc. Some seating built right in! WHAT TO BRING: 1) Your own lunch [salad, sandwich, etc]. 2) A snack or dessert to share with others. FINGER FOOD please (ie: cheese cubes, chips, salsa, hummus, fruit, cookies etc). Feel free to show off your baking skills! 3) Your own beverage [or some to share, but bring cups if needed]. Venue does allow alcohol, FYI. 5) A large towel or small blanket. 6) One or two women should bring larger sized plates and napkins, in lieu of snack- please do indicate in ‘Comments’.

Cello concert, free!

San Francisco Conservatory of Music

Please join us for a free concert at the wonderful San Francisco Conservatory of music. The music will be provided by the cello department, and the players are *quite* talented. https://sfcm.edu/performance-calendar/event/cello-department-recital-0

Meet ya @ The Wild Side!

Wild Side West

Come to Bernal's best neighborhood bar featuring a fabulous garden! Fingers crossed, we will have a lovely day, yet again. Well behaved, canine sweeties are very welcome! Rain will cancel. We will start out wait towards the back and spread out throughout the venue - please keep walkways clear - thanks! Look for the happy, laughing older gals! Feel free to mingle throughout the venue, chatting with our gals, and the very friendly regulars. Thanks again, for bringing your glasses, bottles etc. back to the bar.

Past events (16)

Walk & Gobble: St Francis Woods

Squat & Gobble

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