What we're about

Femme is a female centric social and erotic sanctum for women, couples and select males. We arrange intimate socials and erotic group parties and meet on a regular basis to build friendships, fulfill desires and explore fantasies.

We discourage members who are seeking one off casual encounters. Instead we are looking for members who want to attend regularly and develop a more intimate, ongoing no strings relationship with multiple members of the group.

We hope that each of our parties and socials will become progressively more intimate and erotic as friendships and emotional bonds between members strengthen.

Members support one another to overcome their initial nerves and experience the pleasure and guilt free thrill of playing with multiple partners in a single evening within a safe and non judgmental environment.

After a night at Femme, you'll have broken free from the sexual chains and guilt that you may have subconsciously learned and you'll have embraced a world of pleasure and guilt free, casual recreational erotic pleasure.

There is no judgement, guilt, anxiety or shame. Just pure pleasure and encouragement to explore. Femme is a hedonistic paradise where you'll live out your fantasies and deepest desires in your very own version of a live erotic show where you are the star and others watch and will become aroused by your beauty, sexual freedom and enthusiasm for pleasure.

The evening will be the most erotic evening of your life which you will remember and cherish forever.

To protect Femme from becoming over-run with men, we only allow women and couples to become members.

Highly attractive men attend the events by invitation and approval from the single female Femme members. This ensures the men who attend are highly attractive and do not overwhelm the balance of the parties.

Bi female guests are given a pink bracelet on request which lets other female guests know they are bi or bi curious and want to play femme to femme.

The parties are held in upscale candle-lit hotel suites and apartments in the London area. Sensual music and erotic movies made especially for women play in the background.

The men are hand picked. They are sensitive, engaging and very attractive.

The evening starts with introductions, drinks and a pre-play social that allows members and male guests to feel at home and relaxed. Ice-breakers, introductions and flirting ensures everyone gets to know one another and for attractions to form. It is especially important for us to make our members and guests who have come alone feel at home, relaxed and know they are among friends. The social aspect of Femme parties is a core part with close friendships formed among members who have much in common!

Once everyone is relaxed and happy everyone changes into lingerie and underwear and we start the erotic entertainment and ice-breakers.

sexy costumes, exhibitionism and sensual striptease. Expect erotic theatre, toy shows, oil play, tie and tease, girl on girl and lots of flirtatious play and seduction.

To get everyone turned on and in the mood we have lots of entertainment and games for everyone to join in with or watch:

• All hands Yoni massage show - volunteers welcome :o)

• Anal sex show and demo - volunteers welcome :o)

• Erotic theartre with sexy costumes, role play, make-overs, body painting, toys, coconut and baby oil play , tie and tease, girl on girl, anal play and lots of flirtatious play and seduction.

• Speed seduction to find your erotic partners for the evening

• Spin erotica

• Blind man's kiss

Ladies can hand select guys and other girls to live out their fantasies such as:

• Fantasy role play with sexy dressing up and uniforms

• MMF / FFM / FFF threesomes / more-somes

• Many hands yoni (pussy) massage

• Orgy and group sex

• bi and bi-curious play

• Anal play

• Tie and tease

• bdsm, bondage, submission and domination

• Exhibitionism and voyeurism

We teach and encourage the use of edging, controlled orgasms and laddering techniques along with erotic massages such as Yoni and lingam to keep everyone horny all night. BTW, do you know how heavenly coconut oral is? You'll find out. Whether you're a man or a woman, it's to die for.


Dressing up is a big part of Femme parties. We encourage individualism, diversity and free self-expression to cultivate our own sense of sexuality and seduce those we desire. The energy and atmosphere is infectious. How ever you chose to dress, the guests are daring, fun, provocative and above all, uber-sexy.

Ladies - Think glamour. You're the star of the event. We want to be dazzled by your beauty and sex appeal. Along with the uniform theme, we love you to embrace your feminine side. Sexy lingerie, heels, jewelry, stockings and suspenders.

This will be the most erotic night of your life and everyone should look the part x

You are welcome to bring your costume in a bag and change at the party.


The nature of our gatherings require that attendance remain strictly confidential. Taking pictures or video is strictly forbidden. No one should divulge any personal information to other guests other than your first name.

All female members are free to watch without any pressure to participate.

Female members are in full control at all times. There is no contact between guests unless the female member invites the male guest to play. This is a very strict rule and any male guest who breaks this rule will be ejected and will never be invited back.

The discerning appetite of the membership requires the highest of standards and the club strives to create moments that cannot be experienced elsewhere and therefore seek to curate events toward the inclinations and whimsy of our members. If you have any ideas for the party or fantasies you'd like to explore, please raise a suggestion and we'll try and incorporate your ideas into the next party.


Females (attending without a male friend or partner) - £20

Men - £70

M/F Couples - £70 (per couple)

Please bring your own protection and drinks as we don't have a licenses to serve alcohol.

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