We used to know what it meant to "be a guy", now it's a little bit more difficult to define.
Our grandfathers had never heard of the term "Toxic Masculinity" nor would they know what #metoo meant. It's a whole different ballgame today but there is also a lot of opportunity. You can be a good man and be an asset to the world. You can live a life of passion, joy, purpose. You can be an example to other men.
In order to do all this, we need to start with looking at what is real. This means waking up.