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A Key Question for Successful Speed Dating
The 7- Minute Speed Dating Event (30-45)
Successful daters are those who don't need to date anymore. They found their soul mate, married and are now in a relationship which is growing stronger, more supportive and loving over time. Statistics show that over 25% of married couples in the USA find and build this type of relationship. If you want to be in this category, we recommend that when you are dating, don't ask yourself: can this person give me what I need, ask instead (or in addition): can I see myself wanting to give to this person for the rest of my life? Do I see in this person such a vista of potential that I want to invest in him or her?
Step back, observe and consider: Does this person have the character, values and goals that will foster a desire in me to help him (or her)?
A focus on giving (healthy giving without an agenda, neediness or negativity) fosters feelings of connection and love. This binds people together in such a way that even challenges will bring them closer together.
So can you find this out in the first 7 minutes? Unlikely. But give this question a try - the next time you sit physically or electronically across from a date, ask yourself: is there any possibility I would enjoy giving to this person? And if the answer is yes - go on another date. Who knows, this could be the start of an eternal connection.
1.Soul Mate Have you found Yours?
2.Dating Are you dating your illusion?
3.The First Date
What's the goal of the first date?
4.Dating for Marriage
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