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Christmas Holidays Speed Dating

  • Coldwell Bank

    2698 Berryessa Road, San Jose, CA (map)

    37.389423 -121.856331

  • A Key Question for Successful Speed Dating

    The 7- Minute Speed Dating Event (30-45)

    • Dress: Casual
    • Time: 7:30PM - 9:00PM
    • Cost: $20 Per Person. $25 at the door.

    $20.00 Pay Online NOW and save ($5.00) Click HERE

    Successful daters are those who don't need to date anymore. They found their soul mate, married and are now in a relationship which is growing stronger, more supportive and loving over time. Statistics show that over 25% of married couples in the USA find and build this type of relationship. If you want to be in this category, we recommend that when you are dating, don't ask yourself: can this person give me what I need, ask instead (or in addition): can I see myself wanting to give to this person for the rest of my life? Do I see in this person such a vista of potential that I want to invest in him or her?

    Step back, observe and consider: Does this person have the character, values and goals that will foster a desire in me to help him (or her)?

    A focus on giving (healthy giving without an agenda, neediness or negativity) fosters feelings of connection and love. This binds people together in such a way that even challenges will bring them closer together.

    So can you find this out in the first 7 minutes? Unlikely. But give this question a try - the next time you sit physically or electronically across from a date, ask yourself: is there any possibility I would enjoy giving to this person? And if the answer is yes - go on another date. Who knows, this could be the start of an eternal connection.










    1.Soul Mate Have you found Yours?
    2.Dating Are you dating your illusion?
    3.The First Date
    What's the goal of the first date?
    4.Dating for Marriage
    Fast Track to Marriage: Find & Remove Your Blind Spots

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  • David

    You should of said that we need to pay upfront $20, what did you expect? (It's time for us organizers to cancel events on our members)? REALLY. If I remember correctly, this speed date was originally scheduled for December, then it was cancelled, rescheduled for Jan 26, and we just found out it was at Caldwell Bank! Not trying to be a jerk, but your comments are unfounded. Next time be a little more organized.

    January 25, 2013

  • Steven - Milpitas Social G.

    We have 64 people signed up for the Speed Dating game. Two of you paid and one want a refund?

    This is way too much to handle. I don't need to spend $500 to secure the place. Let's just forget this. Can't do the Meetup thing anymore. Its time for us organizers to cancel events on our members. I need to get back to my 1000 emails and tell people where, when and why? Just play poker and Monopoly....should be all fun and games!!

    Please don't send another email to ask for your money back today.

    January 25, 2013

  • Brian G.

    Christmas in late January?

    January 17, 2013

  • Patrick

    Where is it going to be held?

    December 22, 2012

  • Patrick

    Where is this going to be held?

    December 22, 2012

  • David

    Has the date been changed for the Speed dating from Dec 22 to Jan 26?

    December 19, 2012


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