Hi everyone! This group is about any couple - married or dating - who's partner exerts selfishness. Selfishness can appear on many levels. My personal experience of dealing with a partner who is selfish - after 10 years, my new husband revealed to me he wanted multiple women in his life. Needless to say our marriage ended. I found myself asking why, trying to find answers, and wondered if other women have had or are currently having similar experiences? Part of the explanation maybe due to an individual narcissistic tendencies or simply an insecurity in their manhood.