What we're about

Every friend or partner started with the first hello!

We aim to provide a safe environment for you to make new friends and widen your social circle. We know how daunting it is for ladies to come alone to events so we can even put ladies coming alone in touch with each other beforehand. We'd like to offer this to you too guys but we know how strange you would think it was if we said we could network you with other men beforehand lol! We can only suggest that you arrive at the start of the event when we can properly introduce you into a mixed group of new arrivals and ease you in gently.

We have members from 30 but the majority are 35 - 55 with older than this too even 60s. We don't mind younger or older but we must state that this is our majority.

How to show your INTEREST to get more information: Please click on TICK on meetup to become a member and to receive further information about our exclusive events where we take over the whole venue and the only people attending are registered with us for the evening. This way we feel that we are providing a safe environment as the party later is not open to the general public

Come and drink, socialise and dance (if you want to) - and if you meet someone it is an ❤️ 'ICING ON THE CAKE' ❤️

A group monthly for socialising, dancing, for people 35 +. Even if you cant dance, or disco is not your thing, it is still good to get out and chat to other sociable sorts and make new friends.

Upcoming events (5+)

BIG Singles Party in London Max 250 March 2

The Union Bar & Grill Regents Place

It's always a great atmosphere at Union Regents Place and always max 250 each time. We end up turning people away when we are full. Picture above is from one of our events at this venue. Join us for a fun night of socialising and dancing with intros at the bar in mixed groups, our Social Circle ice-breaker at 7.45pm and then the party with DJ who rocks until 12.30am. Tickets £13.75 booked via our site. Text Julie on[masked] for the link to book stating the date you are interested in attending with full name and email. Please note that RSVP only does not book you even if you receive a message from Meet Up saying that you are booked. Everyone attending our events has confirmed details with their booking so this maintains a safe environment for people to meet and it also makes a big difference to the sort of people attending . We take over the whole venue for exclusive use and the door is staffed all night so it is not possible to just turn up later if you are not registered and on the guest list as booked. Book soon as we always end up turning lots of members away by the date of the event. We cannot take new bookings on the day as always full by then. We always reach max 250 as events are promoted on 8 Meet Up groups, Skiddle and Event Brite as well as our own club's website. It is always a much higher number booked than shown on any of the Meet Up groups. Our club has been going since 1994 and we have the biggest singles parties in London with a very cosmopolitan mix of sociable singles in London and from the surrounding suburbs. FEMALE NETWORKING If female and coming alone, we can put you in touch with other ladies booked who are also coming alone and would like to hear from you. We know this makes a big difference to encouraging ladies to come to our events as they feel much more comfortable and it is nice if there is someone also going home your way after the event. We have members from later 20s/early 30s but we would say the majority age range is 35 - 55 at our parties with younger and older than this. Hope to see you all soon. Regards Julie Davies[masked] (text me on this number for link to book)

Free bar gathering 3rd Fri every month Finos Basement Wine Bar, Mount st W1

• What we'll do PLEASE READ ALL INFO Free to attend, VERY informal get together bar option in Finos wine bar on the 3rd Friday of EVERY month 7pm onwards - this will be for over 40's plus or anyone with mature attitude. Another informal and unnamed 'of a certain age' group of people meets here that I (Eve) go to anyway and they have said they would welcome more people to come along to chat to. I can introduce people to people if you wish. There are some ex-Nexus and ex-Intervarsity etc. that go if you knew of those groups. Very Important : You can appreciate please that there is absolutely NO GUARANTEE how many may attend or male/female ratios but am letting people know about this possibility anyway as an additional bar option for you all. The more that come the better it will be. After all its better than staying in with cocoa and slippers ! You only need to meet a couple of interesting new people to make it a good night and increase your social circle/nights out. I am leaving this option open monthly (3rd Friday of month) for anyone who wants to come along as I go anyway. I admit its not the cheapest wine bar because of where it is but it and the staff are very pleasant, easy to find once you know, and ideal on a Friday if you fancy an evening out. Why not come for an hour or two anyway - you don't have to drink alcohol to have a good time. Check out at: http://www.finos.co.uk/finos • What to bring Please look up on how to get there - Finos Wine Bar, 123 Mount St, Basement Bar. No signal in bar - please organise travel from Bond st. Green Park is near too. Mount St is Berkeley Sq end. Bring a smile, open mind & willingness to chat and meet new people. This bar gathering will be for people at a loose end on 3rd Fri of month who wants to come along. NB: If new/nervous to any Icing events just ask for EVE - all the bar staff in here know me - I have been going here for over 20 years. • Important to know No door lists for names as public bar but if you haven't been to ANYTHING at all before please email [masked] with your mobile number and name so we can keep you informed easily of the larger dance events monthly (up to 400). I will pass that to the main Organiser of those events (Julie) so she can keep you informed of the big monthly dances.

Free bar gathering 3rd Fri every month Finos Basement Wine Bar, Mount st W1

• What we'll do PLEASE READ ALL INFO Free to attend, VERY informal get together bar option in Finos wine bar on the 3rd Friday of EVERY month 7pm onwards - this will be for over 40's plus or anyone with mature attitude. Another informal and unnamed 'of a certain age' group of people meets here that I (Eve) go to anyway and they have said they would welcome more people to come along to chat to. I can introduce people to people if you wish. There are some ex-Nexus and ex-Intervarsity etc. that go if you knew of those groups. Very Important : You can appreciate please that there is absolutely NO GUARANTEE how many may attend or male/female ratios but am letting people know about this possibility anyway as an additional bar option for you all. The more that come the better it will be. After all its better than staying in with cocoa and slippers ! You only need to meet a couple of interesting new people to make it a good night and increase your social circle/nights out. I am leaving this option open monthly (3rd Friday of month) for anyone who wants to come along as I go anyway. I admit its not the cheapest wine bar because of where it is but it and the staff are very pleasant, easy to find once you know, and ideal on a Friday if you fancy an evening out. Why not come for an hour or two anyway - you don't have to drink alcohol to have a good time. Check out at: http://www.finos.co.uk/finos • What to bring Please look up on how to get there - Finos Wine Bar, 123 Mount St, Basement Bar. No signal in bar - please organise travel from Bond st. Green Park is near too. Mount St is Berkeley Sq end. Bring a smile, open mind & willingness to chat and meet new people. This bar gathering will be for people at a loose end on 3rd Fri of month who wants to come along. NB: If new/nervous to any Icing events just ask for EVE - all the bar staff in here know me - I have been going here for over 20 years. • Important to know No door lists for names as public bar but if you haven't been to ANYTHING at all before please email [masked] with your mobile number and name so we can keep you informed easily of the larger dance events monthly (up to 400). I will pass that to the main Organiser of those events (Julie) so she can keep you informed of the big monthly dances.

Free bar gathering 3rd Fri every month Finos Basement Wine Bar, Mount st W1

• What we'll do PLEASE READ ALL INFO Free to attend, VERY informal get together bar option in Finos wine bar on the 3rd Friday of EVERY month 7pm onwards - this will be for over 40's plus or anyone with mature attitude. Another informal and unnamed 'of a certain age' group of people meets here that I (Eve) go to anyway and they have said they would welcome more people to come along to chat to. I can introduce people to people if you wish. There are some ex-Nexus and ex-Intervarsity etc. that go if you knew of those groups. Very Important : You can appreciate please that there is absolutely NO GUARANTEE how many may attend or male/female ratios but am letting people know about this possibility anyway as an additional bar option for you all. The more that come the better it will be. After all its better than staying in with cocoa and slippers ! You only need to meet a couple of interesting new people to make it a good night and increase your social circle/nights out. I am leaving this option open monthly (3rd Friday of month) for anyone who wants to come along as I go anyway. I admit its not the cheapest wine bar because of where it is but it and the staff are very pleasant, easy to find once you know, and ideal on a Friday if you fancy an evening out. Why not come for an hour or two anyway - you don't have to drink alcohol to have a good time. Check out at: http://www.finos.co.uk/finos • What to bring Please look up on how to get there - Finos Wine Bar, 123 Mount St, Basement Bar. No signal in bar - please organise travel from Bond st. Green Park is near too. Mount St is Berkeley Sq end. Bring a smile, open mind & willingness to chat and meet new people. This bar gathering will be for people at a loose end on 3rd Fri of month who wants to come along. NB: If new/nervous to any Icing events just ask for EVE - all the bar staff in here know me - I have been going here for over 20 years. • Important to know No door lists for names as public bar but if you haven't been to ANYTHING at all before please email [masked] with your mobile number and name so we can keep you informed easily of the larger dance events monthly (up to 400). I will pass that to the main Organiser of those events (Julie) so she can keep you informed of the big monthly dances.

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