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The “Men in the Mirror” men's groups meet weekly for deep-felt conversation.

Speak openly and feel at ease with men you can really trust and count on.

  • Talk fearlessly about defeat, meaning, and rage
  • Always know what the others are feeling
  • Conquer disillusionment ― tremendously strong and joyful

The well-tuned connections and deep friendships within men's groups are the result of hard work. We go up and down through the stages of each feeling, whether we’re discussing omnipotence, doubt, guilt, loss, or conflicts in relationships. Expect the group to be receptive to your reason and passion. We have comfortable dialogues about what matters most to us. Weekly meetings to quest after our unsoiled sentiments.

  • Has it been a while since you truly felt valued somewhere?
  • Do you even know what you are entitled to in life?
  • What could the group do to really support you?

Men in the Mirror is a brotherly environment for cultivating the male soul and for helping you when you are stuck, in pain, or in a place of isolation.
Our group does not use set topics; we just come together to talk about whatever is on our minds. We discuss how to deal with situations, what we see as virtuous, or what we consider to be the right action. There is room to speak about what we feel ashamed of, are confused about, or are afraid of. And at other times, we can cheer a member's accomplishments or honour his fortitude.

So: if you care to talk to other men and investigate their views on how to live life the right way, then meet with us for a talk. Join us for unvarnished conversation and exchanges of consolation. You can expect a comfortable, confidential, and judgement-free environment.

Being reinless is strangely comforting.

―Men in the Mirror

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  • We have a group that meets in person in New Westminster and a group that meets via Skype. The former group is open to new members, the latter is not.
  • There is a membership fee of $30 per year, which is payable by eTransfer, PayPal, or in cash. However, you are welcome to check us out a few times before committing to any payments.
  • You are welcome to request a conversation by phone if that would help you decide whether this group is right for you. Simply write Tristan (the organizer) via
  • For discussions about anything related to men's work, join the Vancouver Men's Network Facebook group.
  • There are also many other men's groups in British Columbia.

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