What we're about

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This meetup group was initially established Oct 2002. Making this the oldest known Meetup group in New York City or the world.

This group has a long and storied history. And the story continues. Be part of it. Have your tales of debauchery mingle with ours.

This group dates to the earliest meetup group created. It's the oldest group in NYC. It's the funnest one!

This group is not about being sad or alone. It's about being positive and awesome. Come inside and join us in the party. The gang is all here and all that's missing is you.

(quick legal note: this group name and all derivations are ™ Trademarked/Servicemarked and/or Copyright protected. Unauthorized used is NOT permitted. This group is part of a confederation of groups. You may NOT start a chapter without express permission. There is no charge or fee to be part. The group must be for the most part "non-profit." You may not charge organizers to list events. The group may NOT be a promotional front, or a venue for one person or entity. The group must be diverse and open Chapter Guidelines may be obtained by clicking the "Contact the Organizers" button)

The mission of this group is its name.

This group aims to be positive and safe environment for members to experience things that, for whatever reasons, you longed for but weren't able to do before.

New York is vibrant and diverse city. We have the opportunity to explore it and make new friends while doing so. Meetup is one of the few (maybe only) websites dedicated to having it's participants get offline and do things in reality.

EVERYONE IS WELCOME INTO THE GROUP!

Think of this group as Summer Camp, . . . but for adults. Most events are free. There are a few that cost. Those do make enough to cover the Meetup fees. We do extend out to lots of other organizers, as a good community is made of many and diverse voices and people. If you are interested in posting an event send a note and we will see what can happen

This is a place where everyone can just come as they are, and mingle with people who are like them AND who are NOT like them. We are not limited, restricted or exclusive by age, gender, gender preference, national origin, relationship status, etc. To put it more simply this group is open to all. All ages, all genders, all sexual orientations, all types - And that includes you!!!

There are plenty of meetups that exclude based of one reason or another. Or there plenty meetups where people self segregate. This meetup is neither of those. Diversity is coveted here. People are not monochrome and neither are we. You will fit in perfectly and find a lot of folks who just like you in certain aspect, and differ from you in others. It's the good kind of variety of life.

Some events on this group may specify limits at times. Those will be clearly noted when needed. At times they may be age delineated, or even gender related. Limits are placed often as a means to control size. The event can then be repeated/recycled with a different limit range. If there is an event you really wish to go to with a limit, . . . please contact me. You can be the impetus and the catalyst for the next event in the different limit/range. Other times the limit can be waived or bent as needed.

Challenge yourself and importantly, BE yourself and expand your horizons and comfort zone. Let your hair down! Go wild! Be open minded and be non-judgmental. The group is based off quality events to bring people together from positive social interaction. Anyone who wants to explore an alternative, bohemian, experimental, strange, obscure, weird, wild, absurd, bizarre, avant garde, unconventional, wild-at-heart side of Los Angeles is welcome!

In the interest of making events successful . . . We will spread events across other meetup groups to bump up attendance. For as you know, . . . sometimes people don't show up. Some Organizers get really bent out of shape about that. I do however know that life happens. Even if it's 10 mins before the event. Just change your rsvp. No worries. No harm-no foul. There is not any sort strikes or penalty system, and there is nobody keeping score. The exception will be if it is listed as a "no flake" event. On those you gotta give good notice of changes. It's about fun and community. What I have found is that by being mellow and and having good events more show up. We tend to have 80% or more attendance. I approach with compassion. So if you don't make one event or another. . . try and make it to the next, or the one after that. When you do make it, .. . . we will be glad you are there and all are welcome.

Here are the basics of group rules.

Do NOT contact members who you have not met in real life.

Avoid Put Downs.

Speak For Yourself.

Listen To Others.

You Have The Option To Pass.

Expect Unfinished Business.

While there are flexible attendance rules. There are sex/gender related rules. As a guideline do not message people you have not met in person. This is not an online dating place. Ladies: If a guy messages you please contact me. There have been problems with that happening over meetup in general. It's just not cool. Meetup is about real life and not virtual. Guys, . . . get off your computer and come to an event. Say hello in person. Smile, . . . be personable and decent. And just be there to get to know people and make friends of whatever gender. You can always use new good friends. And this is one way to make/meet them. Wingman tactics and and Pickup artist tactics are similarly not allowed in this group. Organizers of another group that are not an organizer or host here are also not allowed to solicit members.

The rest of the rule are just good ways to live and be.

These rules apply here AND on like-minded sister groups. So it also applies on the following

Photo and Name: You are allowed to join with whatever name and whatever photo. HOWEVER the main organizers may request you change either name or photo a their discretion. Names that are products, promotional, advertisements are red flags that will be requested to change or be removed. If you are using a photo that is not your face, a current face photo may be requested. Here is the rule of thumb. Fake name and fake photo will be requested to change to a real photo and a real name or face removal. Real photo and fake name is usually fine. Fake photo and real name is usually fine.

IF you need to maintain privacy of both then contact the main organizers and just ask. That's all it takes usually.

All organizers on the group do have different set of rules.

The rules simplified.

• No Emailing (do not use the bulk email feature in any way)

• No outside links

• Great Copy

• Great Pix

• 4 weeks notice is best.

• List any money costs in the first 2 or 3 lines.

Not too many rules. Not too complicated. They all have to do with respect for the membership.

Let's talk a little more about age: Are you in your 20s 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s ? (btw some write 20's 30's 40's 50's 60's 70's 80's 90's ). I am often asked "What age range is this group?" 20 40 maybe? 30 50 perhaps? Or even 60 70. Forties ( forty's forty ), Fifties ( fifty's fifty ) of sixties ( sixty's sixty ) or older does matter. 24-39 3000 20+ 30+ 50+ 60+ & under or over. We are just aiming at good community.

Yeah, . . . All that is great, . . . But I still have one question, . . . What age is your group?

Age is a state of mind. And our state (this group) has no borders.

If so then you may be looking for us!

We do NOT discriminate by age, sex or gender, gender preference, origin, religion, belly button lint, etc . . . .

Do you enjoy friendship, activities, key networking, casual socializing, parties learning, sharing, inspiration? You do!?!?! How about personal and professional development with active nerd adult ( adults ) who like adventure ( adventurers, adventures, adventurous ) stuff that may involve silly dance game ( games ) and cool nerds with addicting, amazing fun? Great!!!! There will be sweet things to discover while engaging in retro revival underground unique geeky exploration of fringe play plus speed punk quirky sophisticated spectacular geek socials with high society making savvy friends. It will be an offbeat odyssey of an outing to nerdy paradise and we will party at random places (see locations below). Come and share fine no flake ( flakes ) fun that is free or inexpensive and goes late into the lovely night. Left, right or center, we will live life together and enjoy.

We do some sports related events. Are you interested in teammates players for your sport or hobby? Such as bowling, trivia, camping, biking, hike, hikes, hiking, snowboarder, snowboarding, ski, skiing, kayaking? Or even related to bmi, exercise, fitness, healthy, lock pong, recreation, recreational, outdoor, york Halloween, mammoth mountain, St Patrick's, Ensenada, un scrabble solitaire poker or more!!! We run the range.

A bigger majority of what we are cultural ( culture ), language, travel, music, arts, festival, performance, crave, dining, exotic, restaurant, food, foodie, architecture, art, artistic, urban, or ballet. But it does not stop there. We also do comedy, concert ( concerts ), cook, cooking, theater, theatre, culinary, cultural, tours, sub-culture, subculture sponge ( sponges ), performances, dances, dancing, museums, musical ( musicals ), bars, foodies, dinner, dinning, bbq, beach, restaurants, trips, cruise ( cruises ), cuisine. And even with all that we still to even more!!! Including, flea n farmer (farmers) market ( markets ), boutique, burlesque, crafting, craft, create, creating, sushi, pho, pizza, tastings, tickets, kim chi, tai kimchi, deserts, eating, festivals, film, films, galleries, games, karaoke, movies, sutra kama karma.And now the important question. Did we miss one? Oh. . . OK then, . . Send that so we can add it to the list.

Aside from the High Brow we do engage in the Low Brow such as wine, beer, drink, bar hopping, dive bars ( dives ), rave ( raver ravers raves raving ), hip-hop hiphop, hole holes-in-walls, crawl crawls, trance techno, dubstep, night nightclub, nightlife, nights. As well as classic club clubbing, clubs eclectic, edm electro electronica, pubs, pub speak, speakeasy, drinks, meet meeting mix mixer mixers mixing, greet, happy hour hours haunts, Did somebody say volunteer mingle? Let's DoLA or make a Timeout and TimeoutLA. LAist anyone?

So the High Brow and the Low Brow get together and make up THE KNOW BROW and that is all about people and who makes us up.

By ethnicity we very much match the instagram ethnic makeup of Los Angeles with Caucasian and Non Hispanic Whites, Latino, Black or African American, Native American,Asian, Native Hawaiian and Other Pacific Islander and others such as Middle Eastern such as Arab or Israeli, and many more from across the global atlas.

Different than ethnicity is Nationality, or National Origin. And again . . . from that we run the range European, Filipino, Japanese, Korean, Pacific Islander, Indian, Taiwanese (Taiwan), Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese ( China, Cantonese, Mandarin ), Hong Kong Mexican ( Mexico ), and more and more. Even USC or UCLA

And that makes for sooooooooo many languages. We like language and the culture it is able to unlock It brings English, Spanish second ESL and ELL and ASL are big here. Hebrew, Yiddish, German, French, And the gamut of others to translate ( translation translator ) with class (classes).

Tolerance is a main tenet here as we are Christian ( Catholic, Mormon, etc), Jewish (Jew Jews), Muslim, Sikh, Hindu, Buddhist, tech Scientology and more. And even Republican, Conservative, Liberal, Democrat, Libertarian, Bernie / BernieCrat, or even Trump or Trumpian or Scientologist. This is a big tent and since it's decent social we will all be decent.

What it comes down to is we are making new friends ( friend freind freinds ) and to be friendly. Almost like finding your entourage Made up of Men (man men's mens) and women ( woman women's ) and non-binary too. Members may be young or old, married, single ( divorce divorced separated and never married ) or coupled (couple as part of a committed relationship / relationships ). Many are likely singles and looking to date in one way or another. Going on dates or dating is fine. But it does NOT happen via using the group like Tinder, Match.com, POF or eharmony.

This group is about real life. So online messaging of people you have not met in real life is not allowed. Why such a rule?

Because it is heterosexist of you to assume that all people are interested in you. Like is says above there are married or those in committed relationships. There is is also the range of sexual preference in the group. Gay, lesbian girls lgbt lgbtq queer bi poly swing swinger swinging and any sort of variation such as transsexual and transgender. We do accept all. Even rs40 and rso40. We do NOT accept SpeedDating or Speedating or whatever you call it. It's forbidden.

Whoever you find cute, hot, sexy or find attraction to that comes in person. Plenty a match and romance or spark may happen. You may find your love (or lover). But you also may just make great friends girlfriend ( girlfriends ). It's just down to good decent social. Conscious communication and engagement that makes for self-improvement and improvement of others. Conversation and network or networking of professionals. That's just smart l33t leet api entrepreneur groupting that will lead to inspirational international consciousness.

We just added Game of Thrones GOT and The Walking Dead viewing parties.

Where do you do events? We do them ALL OVER!!!! I have taken the time to look at past events and the cities they have happened in and near and put it together with the upcoming location too. Our groups IS different, . . . we DO range all over the city. Here are where we HAVE BEEN, and where we are GOING!! All of it is obscure or obscura.

So I have gone in great detail to cover who we are and what we do. This is accurate and verifiable by going to our past events and looking that what we have done. This is all fact based on the breadth, scope and mission of this group.

If you have made it this far. Then watch this and then, . . .get off social media and on meetup. The social part of social media.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEWnXmDfVZg

This group is also very Reddit and Redditor affiliated. As such redditors events will be doing activities that do involve meme memes dank redidit subeddit snu snoo lurker boardgames board gaming gamer video cardgames card cards against humanity computers anime internet upvote downvote vote secret santa harry potter wow world warcraft karma programming digg cheap low cost nsfw league legends wtf youtube hearthstone twitch csgo narwhals bacon bacons midnight overwatch lol bernie sanders front page reddiyt r/all homepage android apple iphone mac samsung s6 s7 s8 r mobile funny dota dota2 nba politics discussion pokemon aww askreddit app apps comicon comic con convention disneyland disney diy diablo rams dodgers raiders cosplay star trek wars trekkie scifi sci-fi science fiction gif troll thrones got comment comments ama til today i learned ask me anything steam pc independent yorker independents artemis jackbox jack box com firefly serenity citizen& something comedy urban nightlife foodies friendship sierra wine food drinks dining american ny karaoke

And the other members will have events involving cuisine recreation organizations snowboarding recreational fitness pubs eating culinary consciousness psychology philosophy growth conversation snowboarder theatre theater performances movies films creating galleries museums speak easy speakeasy opening nights music film festivals dancing street performance literature hikes greet tastings tours crawls outdoor activities beer * " ! +

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NY is made up of MANY smaller cites. Those living ANY of those cities are of course welcome in the group. They include: . . .

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Upcoming events (5)

Word Game Night Party: BOGGLE & SCATTERGORIES (Prizes & Fundraiser)

*To Attend Get Tickets At - https://www.socialevents123.com/event-details.aspx?id=9277#tix
(*Multiple Meetup groups are co-organizing so the RSVP's shown are just a very small portion of the total members attending. We will have at least 15. Portion of all ticket sales will be donated to various Covid-19 charities.)

Do you like word games and enjoy playing with others? Then this is your opportunity to have some fun online playing our Live "Scattergories, Boggle & More" Word Game Night Party.

We will email you everything you need to play! You will also get to socialize and make other friends all from the safety and comfort of your home! Plus, winners receive Amazon Gift Cards!

HOW IT WORKS:
This completely online event will be LIVE and you will be able to see and hear the other participants while playing. In addition you get to meet and interact with other participants. You can attend via a computer & Webcam or Smartphone/iPad/Tablet.

At game time, your host will show you a word search board. Your goal is to come up with as many words as you can within the specified time frame. The people who made the most words, will get a raffle ticket for a chance to win a prize at the end of the event. You also can earn raffle tickets for audience participation and finding certain bonus words.

We will have multiple rounds of play and have a system to also virtually introduce you to other participants. Prizes include Amazon Gift Cards, free future events and other goodies.

HOW DO YOU FIND THE VIRTUAL ROOM:
After you purchase your ticket, you will get a confirmation with the zoom link for you to use to log in.

RSVPS ON HERE ARE NOT REFLECTIVE OF ACTUAL ATTENDANCE as this is a multi group event.

*Cost: $15- $20 depending on how early you register for ticket (*Portion of all ticket sales will be donated to various Covid-19 charities)

Couch, Cocktail & Conversation (Hump Day Happy Hour)

Online event

$10.00

*REGISTER AT - https://dljparty.ticketleap.com/couch-cocktails-conversation-virtual-happy-hour/dates/ (Don't worry about RSVP #s. This is a multi-Meetup group event and we average 20 attendees at each one.)

Remember, social distancing doesn't mean social disconnecting! This online event is perfect for making new friends, relationships, networking... and most importantly having fun! All without leaving your couch!! Grab your favorite cocktail, get comfortable, and connect with some new, friendly people!

Our host will facilitate topics as well as encourage conversations and moderate so that everyone has a chance to participate - from across the country. All topics are fair game except politics, religion and Covid-19! Let's keep it fun, light & positive!

All you need is either a laptop/phone/tablet. Once you sign up, you will be sent a secured Zoom link on day of the event. If you haven't already, download Zoom (it's free and easy to use). Once you login to the event, you'll get to see all of the other participants via video.

After the event, we'll leave the event open for about 20 minutes so you can exchange contact information with anyone else privately in the chat.
This event is open to both singles and non-singles. RSVPs listed here are not reflective of actual attendance as this is a multi-group event.

*REGISTER - https://dljparty.ticketleap.com/couch-cocktails-conversation-virtual-happy-hour/dates/ (Cost: $10-$15 depending on how early you register)

*P.S. Event organizers are still being hit especially hard. We continue to work hard to create fun virtual events for you to participate and meet/make new friends. We appreciate your support during this trying time.

"Winter Warming" Drinks Party (Heated Outdoor Patio)

The Drunken Horse

*TO ATTEND GET TICKET AT - https://dljparty.ticketleap.com/winter-warming-drinks-party-heated-outdoor-patio/dates/
(*RSVP's shown here are just a very small portion of members attending. This is a multi-Meetup group event. But for your safety, this venue will be operating at very limited capacity. As such, tickets will sell out fast.)

Let's celebrate the end of this long, cold winter (finally!) with some nice, warm drinks like a "HOT TODDY, IRISH COFFEE, OR MULLED WINE". Join us for a special VIP "Winter Warming Cocktail Social Event" at Drunken Horse! Conveniently located in Manhattan, we have rented this outdoor venue which has a covering and heaters in case of inclement weather.

Plus, you can receive a FREE drink before 7:30pm! Their top mixologists are creating a special menu of 4 warming winter special cocktails just for this evening. Other drinks will also be available. We will also have warm fun icebreakers to help you "warm" up to each other.

What To Expect:
* FREE Drink (w/ a drink & food purchase before 7:30pm. NYC mandates that we must eat while we drink.)
* Heated outdoor area with a covering
* Private venue just for ourselves (general public not allowed)
* VIP Tri-State Professionals
* Limited # of tickets available to allow plenty of space
* Fun Ice Breakers to help "warm" up to each other

COVID-19 Protocols:
* Non-contact temperature check when you arrive
* Complimentary hand sanitizer will be provided
* Seating especially arranged for social distancing
* If you are standing/walking around you have to be wearing a mask
* NYC mandates you need to purchase a food item if you are drinking

FAQs:
Can I come alone? Yes about 90% will attend on their own.

What's dress code? Dress warm. BYOB - Bring Your Own Blanket :)

What are the ages? We'll have a good mix of ages. Everyone always seems to find people in their peer group to hang and taste with.

How much to attend? $20 (goes to $25 as event gets closer/# of spots left).

Do I have to buy in advance? Yes. Space is limited and this will sell out.

Why does your RSVP say +10? This represents the total # of members already registered for this event from the multiple groups co-organizing.

Ladies Night Open Bar Party (+ Free Drink For Men)

Gemini Diner

*TO ATTEND GET TICKETS AT - https://dljparty.ticketleap.com/open-bar-party/dates/ ( Ladies save $5 on tix w/ discount code LADIES at checkout)

*For your safety, this heated outdoor venue will be operating at a very limited capacity. Multiple Meetup groups are co-organizing so the RSVP's shown are just a very small portion of the total members attending. This will sell out.

Join us for an exciting singles social event in which ladies will receive a top shelf/premium open bar (vodka & bourbon) and men will receive a free drink!

Conveniently located in Murray Hill section of Manhattan, this venue will have our own private space of 2 rooms inside as well as outside tented seating with heat lamps as there is something for everybody!

What to expect:
* Ladies top shelf vodka and bourbon open bar before 7:30pm
* Men will receive a free drink before 7:30pm
* 2 private rooms as well as an outside heated tent
* Fun & friendly like-minded singles from trig-state area

*As New York State Mandates that we must eat while we drink, a food and drink purchase (non alcoholic or alcoholic) is mandatory to receive the open bar or free drink. A special food/drink menu will be served.

COVID-19 Protocols:
*Non-contact temperature check when you arrive.
*Seating especially arranged for social distancing
*If you are standing/walking around you have to be wearing a mask

FAQs:

Can I come alone? Yes about 90% will attend on their own.

What's dress code? Neat casual.

What are the ages? We'll have a good mix of ages. Everyone always seems to find people in their peer group to hang and taste with.

How much to attend? $20 (goes to $30 as event gets closer).

Do I have to buy in advance? Yes. Space is limited and this will sell out. An RSVP alone will not hold your spot. RSVP count listed is based on other ticket sales from co-organizing groups.

*You must purchase in advance to attend at this link -
https://dljparty.ticketleap.com/open-bar-party/dates/

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