What we're about

We are a social support group for gay, bi, and trans men who came out later in life. We offer a monthly in-person discussion group the first Saturday of every month from 3:30–5:30 via Zoom. The group is based in Portland, Oregon, and is open to new members at any stage in the coming out process.

"Later in life" is a personal decision, we have adult men of all ages in the group. We have men in heterosexual marriages, men in their retirement years, and now with being online in different geographic locations.

All are welcome. It can, indeed, get better - at any age.

Contributions to cover Meetup costs are welcome, information and status is here:


Past events (167)

Meeting for October (Zoom only)

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Meeting for September (Zoom only)

Online event

Meeting for August

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Meeting for July

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