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Great Gay Getaway - Thailand 28th Oct - 10th November
For 15 years Darren Brady has been travelling the world experiencing extraordinarily beautiful and nurturing places and now he is inviting you to enjoy them too. Each Great Gay Getaway is hand crafted, selecting unique and welcoming accommodation, fantastic locations and building in activities that will help you not only love the places you visit but also the group you visit them with. Unlike many gay excursions the emphasis here is on rejuvenation and restoration through activities including meditation, yoga, group discussions, snorkelling / diving, walking, experiencing nature, learning about local culture and bonding with your fellow travellers. From October 28th - Nov 10th We go on a 3 destination getaway to Thailand. 3 nights at the 5 * Amari hotel in Koh Samui 6 nights at the 4* Cabana Resort in Koh Tao 4 nights at the world famous gay hotel Babylon in Bangkok This tour takes in 3 locations - the islands of Koh Samui, and Koh Tao and 3 nights in bustling Bangkok sampling all the delights that island + city life can offer: yoga, meditation, snorkelling, walking, massage, cultural trips, cookery classes, nightlife and sunset watching. There are organised group activities and plenty of space to do your own thing too. Whether you want to be up at dawn for a beachside jog or having a lazy morning reading your favourite novel by the pool, this trip will encourage you to do exactly what is right for you alongside a great and diverse group of mindful gay men. For prices, information and registration:

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Gay men are beginning to ask themselves some profound and fundamental questions -

'Why does my life feel dissatisfying?’

'Surely there is more to life than wild weekends that leave me back at square one?’

'Why are my relationships breaking down?’

'Why am I repeating the same old destructive patterns in my life?’

‘How can I start to create the life I always imagined?’

‘Can I have deep and meaningful conversations with a group of gay men?’

'Is there more to life than this?’

What is The Quest?

Founded by Ade Adeniji and Darren Brady, The Quest takes gay men on a journey into a powerfully different way of living, free from the constraints of the past and unleashed to the possibility of the present. From here possibilities are endless and include -

Establishing intimate loving relationships

Living each moment full of vitality

Making conscious choices in day-to-day life

Living a creative life full of self discovery

Being more congruent in the different aspects of life

Experiencing a rich, considered and balanced life

Expressing who they are in the world

Journeying with a community of other gay men

Simply put, the mission of The Quest is - To transform the relationships gay men have with themselves, others and the world they inhabit.

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