What we're about

Tired of being made to believe that masculinity is bad?

Tired of being inauthentic in order to win the approval and validation of others?

Tired of “men's groups” filled with (and led by) “Nice Guys” who blame women for everything and coddle men instead of helping them find the power to own up to their mistakes and make significant changes in their own lives?

Tired of misogynistic “boys” groups, filled with arrogant, self-aggrandizing, over-politicized jerks who pretend to be real men, but who always seem to be getting into fights and showing off in order to cover up their deep-seeded feelings of inadequacy and shame?

Want to finally get rid of low self-esteem and self-doubt?

Want to finally get the love you deserve and get rid of your anger and resentment towards women?

In other words…


In this group, you will learn how to:

*Live an honest and authentic life.

*Attract quality people into your life through honesty and integrity.

*Form healthy relationships, without being manipulative or dishonest.

*Make your needs a priority and get them met.

*Remove your dependency on other people for your own happiness.

*Reclaim your personal power by respecting yourself and others.

*Embrace your masculinity in positive and healthy ways.

*Let go of guilt and toxic shame.

*Get the love/sex/ life you want in a positive, masculine way.

Although this group is aimed primarily at men, everyone is welcome to attend any and all events (unless otherwise specified), regardless of age, race, gender, religion, political views or sexual orientation, as long as their intentions are to help themselves and others in a positive and constructive way.


Part of being a Real Man is being ready, willing, and able to address the concerns or disagreements others may have without being disagreeable or disrespectful. No topic is off limits and all issues will be addressed with courtesy and respect within the group at the meetings.

Meetings themselves will be held every other Tuesday of the month and will last about 3 hours. Dates may be added or changed to accommodate for holidays, and additional dates may be added.

My one rule is that everyone in the group must be respected at all times, which means no gossiping or talking bad about anyone behind their backs. If you have a problem with me or another member of the group, it will be addressed openly within the group like real men, not in secret like cowards.

Right now, the world desperately needs real men -- men who respect themselves and others – men who speak their minds and encourage others to do likewise – men who live with integrity, honor and courage.

If this sounds like you (or the type of man you want to be), sign up now and become a Real Man.

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SPECIAL ADDED DATE! Confession time: A couple weeks ago we were supposed to discuss this topic at the meeting. I allowed the group to get sidetracked in part because I am a little uncomfortable with this topic as it's one of my Nice Guy sticking points. I don't have the life I want, so I feel like a bit of a hypocrite teaching it. Instead of addressing it, I decided to avoid it when the opportunity presented itself. In order to rectify that, I have decided to host a meeting on this topic again. _____________________________________________________________________________________ Due to their toxic shame and childhood conditioning, Nice Guys rarely have the life they want. From their career to their friendships to their relationships, the Nice Guy syndrome prevents them from getting what they really want. Come to the meeting and learn what prevents them from getting the life they want and how to overcome it and get the life they want.

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