Are you a single Christian lady dealing with many hurts (including church hurt)? Single in this context means never-married, widowed or divorced. Some Christians believe that forgiveness should be immediate, but that is giving someone a pass without dealing with the hurt. Let's deal with the hurt. If you are a Christian (any sect of Christianity), feel free to join this group and come to a place where hurts can be discussed in a Very Confidential environment where one can be real. When we are real, we heal.