This is for the Unmarried.
This is for the one's who got married and got over with marriage.
This is for the one's who choose to be single for what ever reason.
This is for the one's who look for to travel with single's who are just like themselves.
This is for the one's who are single and happy in life .
This is for the one's who look for a companion in life. ( it could be a friend for life , all platonic!)
This is for the one's who enjoys deeper discussions about anything with amazing people . (if you can't make a conversation , you might just have a hard time here )
This is for the single's who love to dine and those who love to drink wine . (you are free to drink milk , beer , soda , mock tail or just plain water !)
This is for the one's who can pass their contagious smile to the people around.
This is for the people who are witty , intellectual and have a good sense of humor.
This is for anybody who is above 25.
So , if you are an open minded , non judgemental , friendly, unique and single (i.e - unmarried , divorced or seperated ) who enjoys their own company but would like to enjoy company of people who think alike , this is for YOU !
This is not for the people who are bored and have nothing to do. (you are bored anyways and we are looking for people who are high on life )
This is not for the one's who like to kill time, (There is a difference between investing time in something meaningful and killing time for no reason )
This is not for the sociopaths. (you could only hide for so long )
This is not for the people who follow IST Indian Standard Time (who come to the venue an hour later ) and have no idea of what sound communication or RSVP means. (i said this specifically in context of rsvp and the people who don't know what it means , please visit RSVP)
This is not for the one's who objectify men or women.
This is not for the one's who don't have what it takes to be a good human.
This is not for the one's who are irresponsible and are only waiting for the one to take their responsibility in the name of love or friendship. Be Responsible
This is not for the one's who look forward to promote their business or work . (not a networking platform )
This is not for the one's who look for a female's contact number , email or just female companionship. (with good friendship , the gender should not matter , so if it just a female that you look for , walk away !)
This is not for the one's who are racist , homophobic, misogynist or misandrist.
THIS IS NOT FOR MARRIED COUPLE'S AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT MARRIED YET SINGLE MEANS.
Please read all the above before you answer the questions and all that is mentioned below which is a good to know information for all the potential members of this group.
At Single By Choice we plan on doing anything random from weekend trips to food walk . From drinking beer till we drop to tasting wine . From visiting a new cafe in town to watching a new movie on fridays . Having a lunch to eating dinner. Having intense intellectual discussion to ranting and rambling about how good or bad the week was on a pleasant Sunday ...
We would do all of the above but the activities are not limited to what is mentioned here. Members are welcome to put forward their choice of activities and it will be considered.
This is an online platform to make friends offline. So i would request members to meet people at the event and then initiate friendship with mutual consent. But sending personal messages to a person you don't know and haven't met is not appreciated.
This is a group of mature adults so act like one and do not do things that can possibly get you banned from the group which includes (sending unwanted messages and emails to fellow members, not being respectful )
Please answer the questions in detail and upload a picture of yourself that shows your face .
Your membership may or may not be approved depending on the answers of the questions but do not expect an explanation seeking why.
And i repeat that your membership is approved or declined on the basis of your answers.
Off late a lot of people were denied membership to the group , the reason differs and though i mentioned that do not expect an explanation , people have still asked me for it . So here are a few reasons of why your membership was not approved
• You Bio had nothing but just your name and age , did i not mention that it should be atleast 50 words . I even mentioned what it should include which is for other people to know but if you care less to put that information on the boards , i would care even lesser and be very generous with hitting the decline button .
• Your reason for joining this group is not in sync with the purpose of this meetup. You still want me to elaborate more , read what is written above and if you still don't get it, this group is not for you.
• If you are single wanting to mingle , join a dating site or a matrimonial site.
• You do not have a face picture. i do not accept or decline membership looking at the good or bad photo . But if you are a faceless person , it would not work .
That was all about me declining profiles.
This is for the one's who are part of the group but might no longer be there for the reason given below.
This is still a small group and i am not very keen on getting more members just to increase the number. I have always wanted quality and never the quantity. People who respect humans irrespective of gender age and their orientation. People who value time (their's and other's). There have been quite a few members who have no time to update their RSVP. Those who cant leave a simple message or an email. Those who don't acknowledge messages. So if that is too much to ask for, i would rather not ask anything and delete him/her for they have no time to communicate.
As an organizer i have put in efforts to make this an interesting group and get amazing singles together. It is not an easy task otherwise there would have been a great singles meetup already . Also if you feel that you can do something better than this , feel free to do so . This is not my day job , i am not getting paid for this nor do i want to get paid . This is just an interest. If you have similar interest , please join in and we could possibly have a good time together. If not , there isn't much for you to do in here anyway ..