What we're about
NJ & NY Singles Meetup is a Fun & Socialable Group of Heterosexual Singles Only (ages 45 -50's-to only 65) in the New Jersey & New York areas who are looking to meet other single people, never been married, divorced, widowed, to create new friendships or even who knows maybe find your right one too. I feel if it happens, it happens. If you are separated, well then you are not single, you are still married. You both are just taking a break from each other. That means our Meetup is not for you then.
In addition, we take it serious when we say, we would like to go out and have fun meet new friends. Therefore, we do hope you do too. However, our events entails of doing Dancing, Listening to Music, Live Entertainment, Movies, doing new things (which I do look into new things all the time.) etc. We even sometimes do Meetup Events in Staten Island NY too. Please do let us see what your interests are and the other Meetup groups (if you belong to any) so we can know more about you. There is nothing wrong with doing that, there is nothing to hide . If you do not you will be declined, even if you are on so many Meetup Groups. If you do you would not be declined. In addition, a Photo of Yourself (updated one would be nice.) Take a Selfie. Not one of your Pet (We love pets, I have a dog that my parents adopted him from an Animal Rescue in our area on Jan 9, 2012 he is definitely a part of our family), or an even Cartoon, Scenery etc... If you do not have a photo of yourself, then you would not be accepted. Also, please do keep the send a Message in. (Which the Meetup HQ has changed a few things quite a while ago, like instead of a send an E-mail to. It is sort of a messenger kind of thing, which the icon is up above on your right side near your photo. In addition, you will get a notice in your E-mail that someone sent you a message.) . Just in case, if I have questions that I would like to be answered seriously (not with silly answers please. Which happened.), questions like when you responded Yes to an event and I need to confirm it if you are still coming or not. There is a Meetup App for your Phone in Google Play (Meetup App from Google Play (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.meetup&hl=en)) and Appstore (Meetup App on Appstore (https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/meetup/id375990038?mt=8)) . If I start getting no one (not only with me, and others complaining that whomever is not getting back to me or even them. That happened many of times as well.) that is another thing you will be removed too. I have questions (they are very clear to understand) that I would like to be completed, another thing do not put any Personal information down as if for example, Phone # or even your e-mail address even websites to promote. Plus No Usernames too. We are a Singles Meetup not a Public Relations one. I do hope you understand why we have these rules. By the way we are tired of No Shows, so 3 No Shows you are Removed, Also, if you are not an Active Person of our Meetup within 6 months you became a part of us you will be removed with that too.
Looking Forward to seeing you at our future Meetups,
Susan R., Dawn & Infinity