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Hermes S.


Culver City, CA
Hometown: Culver City

Member since:

September 27, 2013

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

Having the freedom to fall romantically in love with people outside my marriage, communicating honestly and openly with everybody involved - no secrets, no lies.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

I starting a poly relationship and wanted to learn from the experience of people in this lifestyle. I want to explore ways of living beyond the limits of the monogamy stereotype.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

Not currently. I was in a polyamorous relationship with my wife and another woman for a year, but the second woman broke up the relationship.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

Yes. A daughter who is 13.

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

I'm looking for a secondary poly relationship with a woman who has her own primary. Ideally, she would be submissive or masochistic, or into some sort of BDSM.


I am a scientist and a writer. We have been married 22 years in an open marriage arrangement, and have been exploring polyamory for the last year or so.

What Hermes S. is saying about this Meetup Group

Great people!

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