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Victorville, CA
Hometown: High Desert

Member since:

January 31, 2014

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

For us specifically, it means that Trisha is free to develop an intimite loving, supportive relationship with another. I support her in that relationship. She has had a boyfriend for three years now and there are similarities with their relationship and a poly one. He and I get along great, and the two of us have traveled some together.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

To discuss this life with others, to contemplate including another person. To freely speak of the relationship with others.

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?

There is one other man the she has this type of relationship. More of a boyfriend than poly, but we are open to changing the definition.

Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

Two adult children

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

For Trisha to have two other men in her life, that she could love fully, could share time and support as she see fit, and be part of their lives. For them and I to be friends, respectful and supportive of each of the other relationships.


We are a long time, happily married couple in our 50s. We have two adult children who are out on their own. I am partially retired, and Trisha is enjoying her job too much to consider it yet.

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