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Simi Valley, CA
Hometown: Simi Valley

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September 17, 2012

Your answers will be visible to everyone. This is like a resume to tell the other members what you are looking for. This is NOT a "swingers" group so please reflect this in your answer. What does the word polyamory mean to you?

A relationship paradigm where individuals develop long(ish?)term non-exclusive romantic/sexual bonds, forming V's, triads, quads or other arrangements as differs from the more widely-known monogamous, exclusive one-on-one arrangement.

Why did you join the polyamory meetup group?

I'm hoping to find like-minded people for friendships and, hopefully, compatible individuals with whom I might form such a bond

Are you currently involved in a poly relationship? How many individuals in your "tribe"?


Do you have any children? What are their ages? (helps in planning activities)

A boy (11) and a girl (5)

What would your ideal poly relationship look like?

Being a bi male, my imagined ideal scenario would be to become attached to a couple, with a sexual bond with both the male and the female. But my relationships are driven by the people in my life, and less so by any rigid expectations.


I'm a bohemian, liberal divorced dad living in suburbia and yearning to live elsewhere. I enjoy hiking, camping, clubbing, movies, loud parties and quiet deep conversations alike. I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends.

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