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We are a welcoming group of men aged 21+ in Southwest Florida seeking to energize our lives through the transformative power of Tantra.

We gather as a group to learn about, and share, the liberating experience of touch and the intoxicating power of our male erotic energy.


Our group welcomes all men, including those who identify as heterosexual but have lingering curiosity and interest in exploring erotic energy with men and feel the need for greater exploration and fulfillment in their lives. Bisexual, curious and divorced gay men are welcomed.


The practice of Tantra is spreading rapidly across North America and there are some misleading representations equating Tantra with sex.

One interpretation we embrace is that Tantra is not about sex but rather the use of touch as a path to meditation, relaxation and extended pleasure.

We believe society, at large, has lost almost all understanding of the joys and importance of physical touch. As babies, the first primal way we find comfort is through skin-on-skin contact with our mothers. We learn that caressing and touch provide comfort.

As we become adults, however, that nurturing touch and contact with others lessens. A quick handshake here, a quick hug there. Sex becomes a hurried event.

As adults, we enjoy very little extended touch which, studies show, release an important feel-good hormone called oxytocin. Worse, today's men learned as boys to hide — even be ashamed of — self-touch for the purpose of pleasure.

Tantra teaches us how to get past all that and enjoy both receiving — and giving — touch as a means to elevating our erotic energies and locating deeper levels of pleasure, leading to a more satisfying sex life.

It's what we call the Tantric Charge.


We believe all men — and especially men who identify as curious, bisexual or gay — have an instinctual need for bonding with other men.

Our members-only Meetups provide a safe, comfortable and educational experience for interested men to explore the pleasures to be achieved through man-on-man sensual touch.

Our guided, two-hour gatherings also allow the opportunity for participants to interact and bond with a number of different men — thereby exploring the power of touch fully.

Our group's core belief is that neither an erection nor ejaculation is necessary for a man to achieve and enjoy exhilarating erotic pleasure. This is sensual, not sexual.

Further, we believe and teach that there are many techniques to stimulate erotic energy that many men haven't yet learned how to master, including the use of our breath, tongue, lips, fingers, elbows, toes...

We teach members how to explore their body, and their partner's body, to find previously unknown pleasure zones.

Join us for a workshop in Fort Myers soon to discover the power of Tantra for yourself!

Here are some of the reviews from workshops we have held in other cities:

• “You’ll love it! Petur is a great instructor and you just have to be relaxed and open to the experience and whatever happens. This is my 2nd class and I will do more.” — RICHARD

• “Yes, what an amazing and affirming shared experience with a genuinely great group of guys. Petur, thank you for creating such a positive and safe space to explore a practice that feels so natural and edifying. Looking forward to your next workshop.” — PHILLIP

• “So glad I went! It was an awesome time with an awesome group of laid-back guys… I might have been a little reserved the first time but I would absolutely have no reservation about attending again. It was great and the energy was phenomenal!” — BARRY

• “Once again Petur’s workshop was an engaging experience. It was great to let go while at the same time feeling energized.” — PETER D.


While members of this group may exchange touch and share ideas and techniques regarding Tantra, we do not offer massage instruction, diagnosis or medical advice. Consult a licensed massage therapist, massage school, doctor or other health care practitioner for these purposes.

Any fees charged/love donations received for meetings are for the use of meeting space, for supplies, promotional costs, and for the facilitation of meetings, educational growth experiences and men's group dynamics.

Therapeutic massage and instruction in therapeutic massage are not provided by this group.

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