STEPMOTHERS WHO MARRIED WIDOWERS have unique concerns not met by the stepmother support groups, books and magazines that exist out there. What if there is no living "ex", and you inherited his and his late wife's children 24/7, without an "ex" to send them to when you need a mental break for you and your husband? Did you start over in a new house, or keep the old one? Who organizes and discards the late wife's stuff? What about the sense that the late wife's presence generally hangs over the new relationship and the new family? How do you deal with a ghost who is such a big part of your husband's past? We will discuss these issues and more at this support group specifically for stepmothers who married a widower.