What we're about

Exploring hidden dynamics that hinder your development on a mental, emotional and soul level.
A healing journey that will give you more strength to walk your life path.

Systemic Constellations and Ritual (https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/)offers events in which we will take a soul quest and search for healing and strengthening our Being in connection with our ancestors and the world around us.
Systemic Ritual and systemic constellations supply more insight and support in:

persistent feelings of guilt, shame, fear, anger, sadness ...
destructive behavioural patterns
relationship problems and disturbed family relationships

On these evenings we will work with Systemic Ritual and Shamanistic methods. We will explore, share and care. Singing, meditating, rituals and systemic constellations will be part of these evenings.
We will not work with individual issues, but with general rituals and constellations around:
- connecting with the ancestors and healing the ancestor field
- connecting with the soul and its different layers and healing of the soul
- giving support to others that are in a difficult situation right now
- connecting with the feminine and masculine qualities inside ourselves and bring them more in balance
- connecting with the archetypes of the child, adult, grandparent – so they can give us support
- rituals to help transformation and change in your life

* Who Am I
My name is Susanne Hazen. I’m a facilitator in Systemic Constellations and Systemic Ritual and a psychologist.
* Why do I want to share my work with you?
Many times in my life I felt completely alien – wondering which space shuttle brought me into this world and where the hell that space shuttle was, to bring me back to where I could feel connected to the world. My feeling of disconnection was very much based on not being able to connect to men or women in a sexual way. Intimacy in sharing and caring I value highly, but the physical intimacy was nowhere to be found within myself.
It is not so much the act of sex itself that makes me feel disconnected, but the importance people give to it in this world. I am for sure nobody dies for not having sex, but people act as if this is the case.
I cannot understand that even people I appreciate most because of their intellect, their integrity and capacity to reflect upon themselves, that they can completely lose their mind at the moment they fall in love. To me they are alien, not me. But this disconnection made me really curious about the me, myself and I and drove me to start a quest. I rolled into many techniques like NLP, Jungian psychology, body-mind work and emotional bodywork.
That brought me a lot but didn’t change my ‘alienness’.
I kept on searching, and in 1998 I came to learn about the method of systemic constellations. This approach taught me about the hidden dynamics between family members, and the impact serious life events have, not only upon the family member involved but even upon members in the next generations.
In the constellation work, I could see, feel and experience this. I learned how much humans are bonded to family members in love and loyalty – they even want to suffer themselves out of love and loyalty towards the other.
Before my first constellation, I had been eaten by hatred towards my father. Actually, I blamed him for me not being able to fall in love – as others do. I hated him just because of his incapacity of not being there for us on an emotional and loving level.
I learned that this hatred was actually the combination of love and disappointment, grief. This insight changed my attitude toward life and human beings. I became more understanding, more empathic, more able to accept the things and people how they are. And that new attitude improved many aspects of my life – my work, my relationships, decisions I made – and I started to feel more whole, fulfilled.
And this life-changing method I wanted to share with the world. For many years I studied various kinds of Systemic Work and built up a lot of experience in it. This work brought me to my essence – it didn’t change my asexuality – but taught me to accept and live my own nature. Are you prepared to live your nature?
Still and right now I feel a sincere wish to help other people with all the insights, and wisdom I gathered in the last 20 years. So I invite you to come and meet me in my work with Systemic Constellations and Rituals.

Want to know more? See: https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/

Upcoming events (5)

Strengthening the soul

Het Dok 52

Restoring the connection to your soul is a practice, not a one evening trip. So - we are in for more workshops. In this workshop, we will strengthen our soul with the help of the Dutch flower remedies. Flower remedies help us to grow on a mental, emotional and spiritual level. With the help of constellations, journeys and rituals we will find the remedy for you that can help you to make your next step on your life path. You can take a bottle with your flower remedy home after the workshop, so the next weeks you can take them in and experience how they will help you. A bottle (30 ml) will cost € 12,50. We will work with the next combinations of flower remedies: Soul development Primal soul Piece of the soul Tribal soul Consolation of the soul Creation of the soul Safety of the soul Freedom of the soul For the workshop itself, you pay as you like. There will be a box in which you can leave a financial gift for the workshop. We will mainly work with shamanic methods and Systemic Ritual. Want to know more about that? See: https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/what-is-systemic-ritual/

Strengthening the soul

Het Dok 52

Restoring the connection to your soul is a practice, not a one evening trip. So - we are in for more workshops. On these evenings we will do rituals and meditation to restore the connection with our soul. Always different rituals and practices - that help to connect better with your soul. What does your soul need to be more present in your life, where is healing needed? Pay as you like. We will mainly work with shamanic methods and Systemic Ritual. Want to know more about that? See: https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/what-is-systemic-ritual/

Strengthening the soul

Het Dok 52

Restoring the connection to your soul is a practice, not a one evening trip. So - we are in for more workshops. On these evenings we will do rituals and meditation to restore the connection with our soul. Always different rituals and practices - that help to connect better with your soul. What does your soul need to be more present in your life, where is healing needed? Pay as you like. We will mainly work with shamanic methods and Systemic Ritual. Want to know more about that? See: https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/what-is-systemic-ritual/

Strengthening the soul

Het Dok 52

Restoring the connection to your soul is a practice, not a one evening trip. So - we are in for more workshops. On these evenings we will do rituals and meditation to restore the connection with our soul. Always different rituals and practices - that help to connect better with your soul. What does your soul need to be more present in your life, where is healing needed? Pay as you like. We will mainly work with shamanic methods and Systemic Ritual. Want to know more about that? See: https://sejhazendotnl.wordpress.com/what-is-systemic-ritual/

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Strengthening the soul

Het Dok 52

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