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TRUE CIRCLE OF FRIEND – DEEP FRIENDSHIP
(Toronto Canada: 38 – 68 year old, exception applies)
“You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us. And the world will live as one.” - John Lennon
We are / I am a person of vast interests and endless curiosity, always full of questions hoping to learn and understand more about myself and the world. I'm hungry for knowledge and intelligent conversations. They can be fun, light, silly and just laughter or serious, deep and intellectual. We are eager to build a circle of authentic friends that would foster real bond and genuine friendship. To help eagerly, adventure brazenly, listen carefully, defend courageously, speak thoughtfully, advice justly, and support sincerely. A circle of true friends that would create a relax and safe atmosphere, allowing others to open up and share all their positive and negative experiences of life, without any fear or concern of being judged or looked down at. Listening, not only to what you say, but also to what you mean, so that we can learn, grow and support each other in our life. We are / I am in search of that very special circle of friends who would assist each other in working our way towards our mutual goal in achieving enlightenment meaningful life, inner and outer peace, optimal health, financial freedom and happiness. But before all that, allow me to ask one of the most critical question. Have you ever wondered about the real essence of the saying "a friend in need is a friend indeed"? Or the meaning of “close, true and authentic friendship”? Some people talk about the true value of friendship without understanding or knowing what it really is.
True friendship to me is when there are no formalities and the person you are talking to is counted as part of your life and a family member. The trust between true friends is such that if one friend falls in trouble, the other will not think twice or hesitate to help. True friendship never fades away; it grows deeper with the passage of time. And when that friendship reaches a certain level, where even if you don't correspond for some time, endure long distances, complex circumstances and hectic schedules, those real friend will find a way of maintaining contact and be in touch often enough, so that the friendship will remain strong. “When being together is more important than what you do, you are with a friend.” Connie McMartin. True friendship thrives on integrity, trust, inspiration, sharing and openness. Best friends come to know when the other friend is in trouble merely by listening to the tune of his/her voice. True friends don't desert each other when there is trouble; they face it together and support each other even if it hurts their own interest. Nothing is hidden between true friends; they know each other's strengths, weaknesses and secrets. Close friends don't tolerate unfair or false comments and critique of their friendship, and they can put up a very firm resistance to it. True friends are not opportunists, rather selfless. They don't help because they have something to gain from it. “……The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares” - Henri J.M Nouwen. True friend is the one that, you can be with, sitting for long time, uttering few or not even a single word, and then walk away feeling like, wow that was a loud silent, a clear message, one of the best conversation you ever had. A close friend is a shield from harm, a remedy for the wound, a light in darkness, an open book of wisdom to be shared. True friend rejoices in your success and joys and sorrows over your losses and pains. True friend is a connection to life, a reflection from the past, a paved road to better future, a breath of sanity in a totally insane and crazy world. “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." - Walter Winchell. A close friend will stand by you, defends you, and even takes a bullet for you when you’re under attack. To my belief, this is the highest measure, the ultimate test of friendship. The position of a true friend is that "if you hurt my friend, you've hurt me.” It is never, “well, that person never did anything to hurt me, so it’s not my issue.” This attitude is what separates goats from black sheep. However, it is not easy to find that kind of friend in today’s complex and rapidly changing world, and if you have even one, consider yourself lucky. This world is full of cynics, liars, cheaters, hypocrite, users, manipulators, and backstabbers. As Buddha well said, “an insincere and evil friend is to be feared more than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.” I experienced both, the good and the bad side of it. “Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.” - Muhammad Ali. However, there are still some people in the world worth friendship. We will search and search harder for those precious and rare diamonds, those very special human beings. And when we find them, and they find us, then, and only then, will we truly be stronger, wiser, safer and happier. Together we will explore the most serious topics and issues, for instance, what is the greatest need in these uncertain and confusing times? What is the purpose of life? What is death? What are people’s deepest dreams, desires, fears and worries? How could we access higher intelligent and advance knowledge and explore the possibility of being able to feel, see, learn and do things beyond our five senses. And how could we, with each other's help, support and guidance, prepare ourselves in the best possible way to face whatever life throws on us? After forming this small and very special circle of close friends, we will seriously consider our geographic options as to where and how can we live in a warm climate and more desirable place - escaping the long and brutal Canadian winter and refusing to support the big corporations by allowing them to extort an exuberant price for the unsafe, unethical and or polluted products, supplies and services that we use or consume. Supplies that we could easily or with a little challenge obtain, make, fix or grow it ourselves. A good size piece of land in Mexico, Bali, Morocco, Thailand, Belize, Costa Rica, Cuba, Columbia, Nicaragua, Uruguay, Paraguay, Malaysia, Indonesia, Tunisia Singapore, Ecuador, Bolivia or Peru, could open the door for an extraordinary venture and deep journey to the future. Or if it’s really not possible to move overseas and staying here in Canada is a better choice then we could do some things better, bigger and different than 9 – 5 job. Example 50 – 500 acres of unorganized or regular piece of land, which it will be parceled based on each individual need and ability. Where we could live, work, play and party. Were we could have enough time and space to roam around and do things that we always wanted to do. To live off the land, be self-employed and self-sufficient. Far enough from the city congestion, harshness, noises and hassles. Far and lose from the corrupted corporations and the government agencies fraudulent control system and harassment. Building deep and long lasting friendship and unwavering support for each other. Spending quality time and getting old together, working toward achieving optimal health, inner and outer peace, security, financial freedom and happiness, and enjoying what remain of our visit here on earth. A good size piece of land where we could be living in peace, tranquility and harmony with ourselves and nature and celebrating the creation of our new and unique community, in which we will take ways, style, method, traditions and lessons from all sources and create our own way, our own traditions — free to find our path, truth and way of being in the world. But you’re reminded again that the primary goal is a true and deep friendship, which is the start point and the front gate for all possibilities.
We all know that life is meant to be an experience filled with love, laughter, joy, happiness, magic, comfort, and delight. To be experienced at the edge of wonder, manifested, embraced and well enriched when people shed their lies, hypocrisy, negativities and egos. And utilizing their potentials, abilities, oneness, and use the continuously evolving Science, technology, knowledge, experience and wisdom that we have been gathering as human for centuries. By the way, I already found a beautiful place to live in, but to me, nothing is enjoyable or worthwhile without an authentic circle of friends.
Since we are aware that financial ability is a major factor to relocation and one of the very important tool in our life, then we will take a very close look at any suggestion, advice, idea, project, skills or business model that might help us in achieving financial freedom and / or facilitate our move overseas or wherever it happens to be. We will make use of all our resources, ideas, knowledge, experience, ability, wisdom, anything and everything that might help us in this extraordinary journey.
We are/I am also aware of the common interpretations of "having meaningful life", good economy, well-paying jobs, professional success and all these things for which people tend to strive. But have you considered the unlikely answer that meaningful life might be something different than the common commercialized one that has been packaged, repackaged advertised and pushed upon us. I've been struggling for over 25 years, trying to understand and explain the reason/purpose for our existence here on earth. As far as I know neither science nor philosophy seems able to penetrate into the true nature of its meaning, nor satisfy the human cry for its fulfillment.
Now, To The Subject Of Our Political Views: Since it’s obvious that wide gaps in people's political standpoints will cause unnecessary arguments and serious friction, we urge you to consider whether your views and beliefs align with what you are reading. If not, then this group may not be what you're looking for. We are a couple who are trying to educate ourselves so that we could understand, and become even more aware of what is going on around us and the world in general. If you are way ahead of us, excellent, then you may consider us as a couple who are just waking up from the dream world, which we were manipulated into believing. We hope that you too are on the path of seeking answers as to what is really going on in the world: a corrupt and destructive monetary system, a war on investigative journalists, torture and long prison sentences for whistle blowers. Publication bans on scientific research. Poison in our food, soil, air and water supply. Monsanto monopoly on crop seeds. A make-believe democratic political system. Dishonest and hypocritical foreign policies. Murders from the sky. Direct and indirect manipulation of our government by the corporations. Censored media, false and excessively manipulated stock exchanges. Politically biased education, backward medical systems. Murderous military and police forces. The new world agenda that seems to include tightening the rope on internet freedom, as well as extensive surveillance and spying of our personal lives. Are you on the path of evolving as a human being? Are you trying to break out of the mental, emotional and social prison that has been in place for too long? We hope that you can see the unfairness, injustice and hypocrisy in the world. If you are aware of this, and or more, and able to see in this crazy world while most people are just like herd of sheeps that are still asleep in an old fabricated dream world, and if you are looking for like-minded people whose beliefs, dreams, understandings, philosophies and goals are the same or very similar to yours, and, most importantly, if you are hard-wired for Peace, justice, Freedom, Health and Prosperity for all, then this small group may be for you to join.
You Are: A couple or single between the ages of 38 and 68. (Age is not necessarily a defining issue, but drastic differences in age also create strong differences in goals that may conflict with what this group is trying to accomplish). You fully understand the importance, the need, the support and benefit of authentic friendship, “together we stand, alone we fall” – source: internet. You are mindful of your comments and act and the impact they could have on others. You say what you mean and mean what you say (no lies, pretention, exaggeration or hypocrisy). You enjoy spending time and making an effort to acquire more knowledge, understanding and awareness for yourself, and then share it openly with your friends. You have a good understanding of who you are in general. Especially your short and long term goal, your skills, abilities, limitation and the reason for joining this group, including how and where you wish to live the rest of your life. You are not temperamental, confrontational, moody, stubborn, arrogant, bias, secretive, have an attitude or masks. In fact, you are well balanced, direct, clear, true and honest to the bone. Open-minded, pleasant and fun to be with. You have deep desire and strong longing for true and long lasting friendship that is fundamentally different to the common friendships that you hear, see or read about it in today’s media. You are honest, sincere, humble, trustworthy compassionate and authentic human being, not looking to sell product or services and have no game or hidden agenda. You understand and agree with the concept of “DO NO HARM”. You are not simple or naive, rather, curious, thoughtful and smart. “There is no capital more useful than intellect and wisdom, and there is no indigence more injurious than ignorance and unawareness” - Al-Harrani. You would like to take chances sometimes without being too worried about what might go wrong; in fact you’re curios and adventurous. You are not a couch potato or want to be babysat and have people do your work for you. You are non or occasional smoker, non or social drinker. You have a strong interest and enjoy all, most or some of the activities that are outlined under “Current And Past, Hobbies, Interests, Activities And Things Like To Explore”. The rest is negotiable.
Current And Past, Hobbies, Interests, Activities And Things We Like To Explore: Traveling, Cruising, Camping, Hiking, Picnics, long walk, Bonfires, Snorkeling, Canoeing, Kayaking, Remote Living, Cottage living. Desert, Wilderness and Water Survivals Skills and kits, First Aid. Food Preservation, Self-Sufficient Living, Swaps, Bug Out Plan And Place In Case Of Looming Economic Collapse Or Other Problem. Mud, Straw and Tree house, Solar Energy, DIY, Badminton, Frisbee, Para Glider, Chess, Salsa, Merengue, Disco Dancing, Theater, Music and Art in General. Informative Documentaries, Like the Spirit molecule, the Meaning of Life, Mysteries of the Mind, Synagogue of Satan 1878 – 2006 by: A.C. Hitch Cock, Zeitgeist, Alan Watts, David Icke, Greg Carlin, Noam Chomsky and Terence McKenna videos, etc.… Spanish Language, Gym Exercise, Yoga, Hypnosis, The Power of Mind, Jinnee, Magic, Meditation, Buddhism, Sufism, Shamanism, Ayahuasca, DMT, Iboga, Peyote, Mushroom, 7 Chakra’s, Pineal Gland, Tai chi, Intuitive Development, Spirituality, Alternative Health & Wellness, Cell therapy, The law of Attraction. Science, Politics, Sociology, Psychology and Poem. Democracy now radio. As it Happens, Tapestry, Spark, Writer and Company at CBC Radio etc.… Technology/Nanotechnology, Thermoelectric, Magnetics Field, Quantum Physic, UFO, Alternative Currencies, Bit coin, MaxCoin, 3D and 4Dprinters, Domain Name. Healthy yet Tasty Home Cooking and Recipes, Dining and Social Drinking, and Anything Else That Might Enrich Our Life, And Bring Us Closer to Peace, Happiness, and Fulfilment.
What We / I Strongly Disagree, Dislike And Wish To Avoid: Racism – Extreme Nationalism – Biasness – Prejudice – Hypocrisy – Pretension, Manipulations – Exaggeration – Deception – Lies – Ignorance – Accepting Or Rejecting Something without Reasonable Understanding. Inconsiderate – Insensitive – Unreliable – Ungrateful – user – Superficiality & Shallowness – Narrow-mindedness – Rudeness – Bragging and showing-off – Rowdiness, Secretive – Selfishness – Jealousies – Denials – Egoism – Argumentative – Arrogant – Stubbornness – Unpleasant Surprises – Greed and Stinginess – Taking Credit for Something that’s Doesn’t Belong to You – Lack of interest and Motivation for general Advancement In Life – Lack of awareness and understanding of the world issues – Lack of care and appreciation for the environment
Our Goal: Our interest is to have a piece of land in a safe, quiet and tropical climate among our circle of true friends, to grow/make some or most of our food and supplies and enjoy its peace and tranquility, or to build 3D/4D printing facility, B & B, ayahuasca retreat, Greenhouse etc.… (I already found a beautiful place to live in, but it’s overseas) Canada also has very beautiful, Pristine, private and affordable lakefront properties which we could explore further but it’s freaking cold. In terms of where we could live, work or retire, we are open to all possibilities as far as it’s economically, environmentally, and socially reasonable. Any idea that might help our group to do just that or something bigger, and different than the conventional 9 – 5 job, is encourage and welcome. But before all that, we must be friends first, as clearly explained and stressed more than once. And that is the primary objective of this group.
Final notes: 1- A sincere and heartfelt plea to all readers who come across this message: Please, please do not assume that because this message is placed on the internet, it isn't serious, or that there's no real human thought and emotion behind it, or it was written just for the sake of having a nice sounded ad, and just a lineup of selected verbs and adjectives, or it is somehow fake and exaggerated. On the contrary, this is an extract of our desire, belief, what we do and the quality of people whom we wish to meet. It’s honest and based on our beliefs and experiences; therefore, we insist that this document not be taken lightly. And it should be used as a Guide, foundation or a framework for our friendship. Later-on we may add, remove or improve some of its content collectively.
2- We are considering ourselves as an ordinary people, who happened to understand that life is a limited-time offer with an unknown expiry date. Therefore, we are trying to surround ourselves with honest, sincere, compassionate imaginative, well rounded and fun to be with friends, to enjoy the rest of our lives and achieve our mutual goals before the final silence arrives.
3- We do sincerely encourage and appreciate innovation, Creation, inspiration, rich imagination, vision, wisdom, out of the box thinking, DIY, useful skills, talent, abilities, proven strategies and the endless potential in human being.
4- We are using the Meet up platform just to connect with like-minded people, reveal and explain our views as clear as possible, so there would be no mistake or misunderstanding, as to who we are and what we are looking for in people whom we wish to build a true and long lasting friendship with.
5- We are not political activists, nor affiliated with any group, individual, entities or organization, whatsoever.
6- Among our circle of friends, you may find people from all walks of life: investors, entrepreneurs, founders, stocks, forex and options traders, people who love start-up ideas, people who want to connect with you and bring life to your projects or ideas, but also artists, cleaners, farmers, documentary-makers, garbage collectors, carpenters, mechanics, real-estate agents, software developers, etc.
7- Since all of us are mature adults, reasonable, responsible, and have already developed good common sense, then there will be no instructor, speaker, therapist or leader in this group for now. In fact, all of us must be leaders and followers at the same time.
8- You may have a formula or a secret for living life at its best and would like to share it, only with close friends who deserve and appreciate it. You may have quick and clear sense of what is realistic and doable, and what is dream, fantasy and fruitless thought or project. You may know a lot and would like to accomplish even more, and wish to find the missing part of the puzzle. You may have deep vision and wisdom, special leadership qualities and wish to elevate this group to even higher level, but please no religious fanatic, con artist, gang or cult of any kind.
9- We are neither perfect nor close to perfections, but we’re trying to becoming better people and do what is fair and right, according to our experience, knowledge abilities, belief and understanding. We hope we don’t sound snobbish, self-centered, arrogant or egocentric people. We actually consider ourselves exactly the opposite (remember no one is entirely free of flaws and quirks)
10- Everybody has an attraction for money. When money is borrowed or lent between friends, there is a great chance that it may cause a negative experience or damage the friendship, so it is wise to avoid monetary transaction until the friendship reaches a certain level.
11- It’s neither our need nor our intention to advertise aggressively, post an exaggerated and silly feedback and pictures, present or exchange any kind of product or service, to cultivate a large group of people. Actually we prefer not to have large group. We are looking for Quality, quantity is NOT important at all. This ad might be taken down as soon as we meet our circle of true friends. Since our goal, style and method is different than most meet up group in this website, then we will connect via telephone or emails and start meeting at a safe and public place first, and then, we will take it from there. Lastly: We urge you to re-read, analyze, understand, look inside yourself and reflect on each and all of what is written here, before joining this group. This group is for people who are sick and tired of lies, Games, fakeness, Pretention, Deceptions, Ignorance, Superficialities, Shallowness, Hypocrisy and Competition that we encounter daily in the mainstream world & often even in spiritual groups. We are looking for deeper, more meaningful and different experience in life. To support each other all the way through ease and hardship. To be with each other, spent quality time and explore all sort of things together. Enjoy each other, celebrate, dance and play, learn and teach, give and receive, laugh and cry. Connecting as circle making new friends! While simultaneously delving deeper into your individual journey, gently stimulating and unearthing yet the unexpected and unknown wonders for yourself, and this community. Discovering and co-creating diverse projects, new resources, inventing solution, etc… to explore, enrich, manifest, and evolve the best side potentials of human beings in our world….and our interaction with the universe.
We hope that you already possess all, most or even more of those positive & defining qualities and characters, so we can click easily and smoothly. If you don’t, we’re afraid you may not learn or gain them here, and your experience might not be satisfying to you. So please be considerate, sensitive and respectful of others, who have different ways, style, idea and
I already planted the seed, what it will become all depends on us and what we bring to it as individuals by contributing something from our unique personalities, knowledge, backgrounds and skills. And how much energy, time and resources will be dedicated to this project or journey. By now you learned so much about us, so take your time and analyze every word of this message, look inside yourself again and try to find out if this is what you’re really looking for. If it’s so, then shoot us an email, let us know who you are, tell us about yourself as much as you can, including any interest, suggestions, concern, likes, dislikes or comments that you may have. Depending on your response and upon membership approval, you will receive a response including date, time and location for our meeting with you. We may meet with you individually first, and then you will be introduced to the rest of the group.
“You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us. And the world will live as one.” - John Lennon
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