What we're about

The Orgasmic Village is a place for people to gather who are seeking to develop a healthier sexual relationship with themselves, with partners, and with community. Our events are about sharing our knowledge and expertise with a sex-positive community.

Welcome practices include:

• Circling

• Cuddling

• Tantra

• Orgasmic Meditation

• Conscious Touch based on the Wheel of Consent

The principles of this work are supported by teachings in different spiritual and sex-positive organizations and teachers. We have all participated at the following:

• OneTaste (The coaching program and other courses including Intro to OM)

• Human Awareness Institue (HAI)

• Source Tantra (Charles Muir)

• International School of Temple Arts (ISTA)

• Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts (Mastery)

• Juice Plus+ (health and nutrition)

The village is interested in bringing together people who want be in community and share their gifts in this work.

For information on any of the teachings and practices, feel free to text or call Betsy McNair at 617.610.9777.

We're excited to meet you!


One of the foundational practices is Orgasmic Meditation (OM), a 15-minute partnered practice where a man or a woman strokes a woman's clitoris for 15 minutes with no other goal that experience the feelings in the moment. Based in Zen Buddhism, OM is a simplistic practice that combines the power of attention of meditation with the connected experience of orgasm.

We distinguish orgasm from climax, generally considered a momentary peak experience. Orgasm is a continuous flow state where we can access parts of ourselves with greater awareness and consciousness stimulated by sexual arousal.

No gadgets needed, no supplements, and nothing extra.

OM is a practice embracing and utilizing the sexual energy we all possess. We teach people how to acknowledge the energy flowing through us, and then channel it into all areas of their lives. The result is their sex life improves, food tastes better, their connection to themselves and others deepen. Being "TURNED ON" means feeling the electricity of being alive.

OM is a fifteen minute practice that cultivates more sensation in the body, greater turn on, and deeper connection.

We have discovered that a solid understanding of the OM philosophy combined with a regular practice is the best platform for all other forms of sex-positive relating.

We teach OM in private or small groups.

Here are some recommended resources to learn more.

TED talk by the founder, Nicole Daedone:


To watch a You Tube Clip on the Practice on Deepak Chopra TV click here: https://youtu.be/XZB3F9G4raw

Article in Elle Magazine here:


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