All Gender Play Party with Cathy & Peter


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We're switching to an application process to help keep our parties safer and in high integrity. So if you'd like to attend, you'll need to apply and be accepted to get access to tickets.

All information is kept confidential. Fill out the form here:

We'll be coming out with videos answering questions about Play Parties. Please feel free to hit reply to this and let us know your questions!

If you have any questions, we encourage you to check out our special Play Party FAQ:

We are committed to helping people overcome the shame, fear and stigma around pleasure, sexuality and intimacy. Thank you for being curious about learning different approaches and meeting other like-minded people!


1) PRE-REQUISITE: Attending an official Cuddle Party is a pre-requisite for attending this event. Why? Because the communication and respect skills taught and practiced at Cuddle Party make our events safer and more delicious. Therefore, all attendees MUST have attended an official Cuddle Party or gotten a personal exception from one of the facilitators. Haven’t been to a Cuddle Party?

You’re in luck! You may register to attend one the night before:
Official Cuddle Party- with Cathy Vartuli and Monique Darling w Peter Petersen Warmup!

2) This event is not for minors. You and your guests MUST be 21 years of age at the time of the event to attend. No exceptions. Please bring an I.D. in case you look suspiciously youthful. J

What is a Play Party? A play party is an experiential workshop for the sensually adventurous. It’s an invitation you give to yourself to dive deeper into your wants and desires and give yourself permission to bravely connect (or not connect) with people in ways you may have been afraid to do so in the past. Our special evenings welcome people of ALL genders, sexual orientations, and levels of experience. This is the play party you want to come to even if you've never been to a play party before.

Come dressed in something that makes you feel comfortable and/or sexy!

We welcome people of all genders, sexual orientations, ages (over 21 years of age), races, sizes, and experience levels. If you are disabled, please contact us to see if we can accommodate your specific needs in the venue. Come as you are and have a great time!

Our biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. (You know us: voyeurism is participation!)

There is a small cat in the home we're holding this in. The cat will be hiding from all the people, but if you're allergic, please bring appropriate medication.

No scents (perfumes, colognes) please. Some people are very sensitive to perfumes and scents. Please do not wear colognes or perfumes, and do what you can to limit these from laundry soap, hair care products and the like. Thank you! If you can’t wash strong scents off, you will be asked to leave.

FAQ here:

TIME: 7:30pm

Doors open at 7:15 PM and CLOSE AT 7:45PM. Event is over at 11:30 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. NO ONE will be admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space.

WHAT TO BRING: Your sexy self and whatever food and drink you might want for yourself or to share the evening. (No drugs please. We like our Playmates to be present and capable of connection.)

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