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Are you a queer or questioning woman interested in exploring queer women’s identities, relationships and communities? Have you been - or are you currently - in a relationship with a man, and you're questioning your sexual orientation? Dear John I Love Jane has been meeting since 2011, providing support and friendship through the navigation of this often difficult experience.

Please note that even though we do occasionally hold social events, Dear John is a support group, not a social group. We ask that anyone who attends can relate to the experience described above. Our priority is to create a safe, confidential space to explore this major life transition.

We meet on the second Tuesday of each month at QMUNITY, 1170 Bute St, from 7:15 to 9 pm. Please RSVP to

This group has been meeting since May 2011, and two years ago also became a Meetup group. Many of the women who attend Dear John find us through the Qmunity website, so for this reason, the number of people who RSVP through Meetup are usually not representative of the number who actually attend any given meeting.

Our thanks to Qmunity, who provide the meeting space as well as all funding for our group, and have been unfailingly and enthusiastically supportive throughout our 6 year history.

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