{"id":14550,"date":"2023-03-21T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-03-21T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/?p=14550"},"modified":"2023-06-28T12:08:18","modified_gmt":"2023-06-28T16:08:18","slug":"moving-to-a-new-city-how-to-make-it-your-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/moving-to-a-new-city-how-to-make-it-your-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Moving to a New City: How to Make It Your Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A big move to a new city is one of the most exciting adventures in life. But within that excitement, it\u2019s common to feel some level of anxiety.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fear of the unknown, as well as the anticipation you feel before making a big change, are totally normal emotional responses to long-distance moves. You\u2019ll be transporting yourself into an unfamiliar setting, where basic things like finding your way to the grocery store aren\u2019t second-nature anymore. You might need to develop a new routine, get accustomed to different transportation options, or even adapt to a new climate!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Above all, the challenges of a big move revolve around your social circle. You may not have many pre-existing connections in your new city. It\u2019s not unheard of to move to a new place without knowing a single local person. Even if you master all the logistical challenges of a big move, you won\u2019t feel truly settled into your new city until you\u2019ve established new friendships there.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So if you\u2019ve recently moved or you\u2019re planning a big move, learn how to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/lp\/friendship-and-socializing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">get into the social scene<\/a> and make a new city feel like home.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1439\" src=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-560x315.jpg 560w, https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-1120x630.jpg 1120w, https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-1536x863.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/handiwork-nyc-x6pnKtPZ-8s-unsplash-edited-2048x1151.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do some research on local hotspots&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re new to a place and lacking word-of-mouth recommendations, just do what any tourist might do\u2014look up fun things to do! Later, when you\u2019re more established in your new city, you\u2019ll be able to differentiate the more \u201ctouristy\u201d attractions from the more authentic locales. But to develop that local knowledge for yourself, you\u2019ve got to get out there and try stuff!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In your research, you can highlight some more naturally social settings, like cool bars with popular happy hours, or unique eateries. Then, hitch your social wagon to open events with communities of fun-loving folks looking to make casual connections, such as:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/happy-hour-group\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Happy Hour Group<\/a> in Seattle&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/nashvegans\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Nashvegans!<\/a> in Nashville&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/chicago-food-fun-and-social-networking-group\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Chicago Food, Fun &amp; Social Networking<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prioritize putting yourself out there&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>During a big move, it\u2019s super important to address practical needs, starting with the most basic step\u2014unpacking\u2014and continuing with utility setup, shopping for home goods, spatial organization, and \u201cnesting.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be tempting to focus all of your energy on the homefront, making sure that everything\u2019s perfect before you start socializing. However, the healthier and more sustainable option is actually to maintain a balance between \u201cphysical settling\u201d and \u201csocial settling.\u201d In fact, working on one can help complement the other. Going out and making connections will motivate you to keep up the good work on your home, so that you can create the ideal space for hosting your new friends!&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Make a baseline commitment to social engagement&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Putting yourself out there is a discipline like any other. It\u2019s a lot easier to make a plan than it is to actually keep up the habit. So try out some very basic and simple strategies for sticking to your goals. The first should be: name your goal! Of course you want to \u201cmake new friends,\u201d but be more specific. A new friendship is the destination, so ask yourself what that <em>journey<\/em> really looks like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your goal is to have a new best friend by the end of your first week in your new city, you\u2019re probably going to end up disappointed. That\u2019s because you\u2019ve set the bar too high for yourself. Instead, try a goal like going out\u2014whether it\u2019s to a bar, the park, or anywhere else\u2014at least twice a month.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, this example sounds like a baby step. That\u2019s because it is one! Your goal should be straightforward, achievable, and actionable. And after you\u2019ve committed to it for a while, it should leave you wanting to broaden your horizons.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Follow your hobbies into the friendship sunset&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy hours and networking events are amazing resources for making lots of different connections, and they\u2019re especially helpful for getting a foothold in a new social scene. But when you\u2019re ready to develop a deeper bond of genuine friendship, you can supplement that kind of casual meet-and-greet with events based on shared passions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you\u2019ve got your bearings, make your new city your own by creating a Meetup group. You don\u2019t need to be an expert to unite people in your area around a particular interest. For example, you could host urban hikes to explore more of the city, or host pick-up volleyball games in your nearest park. 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