{"id":17340,"date":"2023-08-24T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/?p=17340"},"modified":"2023-10-24T09:35:01","modified_gmt":"2023-10-24T13:35:01","slug":"recording-connecting-in-a-loneliness-epidemic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/recording-connecting-in-a-loneliness-epidemic\/","title":{"rendered":"Recording: Connecting in a Loneliness Epidemic"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Our brains are wired for connection. A daily dose of social interaction is important for our mental and physical health. Yet many of us feel more disconnected than ever. In this Meetup Live recording, we\u2019re talking about the devastating effects of loneliness and how to build relationships essential for our wellbeing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch this recording with Simone Heng, author of&nbsp;<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkpop.com\/simoneheng\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Let\u2019s Talk About Loneliness<\/a><\/em>, for a discussion on the importance of human connection in everyday life. Combining scholarly research and first-hand experience, Simone will share practical steps to help you nurture authentic relationships both in and out of the office. You will gain the knowledge to navigate different communication styles successfully. Learn about the five pillars of connection so you can make new friendships, deepen existing relationships, and improve your wellbeing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Recording: Connecting in a Loneliness Epidemic\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/itNTWCPR3J4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Main Takeaways: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Power of Human Connection<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Early humans thrived in tribes for safety and survival. Our evolutionary history shaped us to seek connections with others. The saying &#8220;safety in numbers&#8221; held true, as being part of a tribe increased our chances of survival. However, modern life has changed, and our cities no longer emphasize communal living. Loneliness not only impacts mental health but also poses severe physical health risks due to our ingrained need for human connection.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Prolonged chronic loneliness triggers a fight-or-flight response with stress hormones like cortisol, adrenaline, and testosterone surging through the body. Initially an alarm for action, this response becomes harmful when experienced over extended periods. Even minor instances of loneliness, like after a breakup, release stress hormones that prompt socializing. However, for those experiencing long-term loneliness, this becomes a continuous stress hormone cycle that damages the immune system, potentially leading to early mortality. Strong social connections can extend life by around seven years on average compared to those who lack such connections. This highlights the substantial impact of human connection not only on mental health but also on physical well-being.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What is Loneliness and How Does it Manifest<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Loneliness stems from feeling a lack of human connection, which involves five distinct types of connections. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Recognizing signs of loneliness in partners or friends involves several indicators. One sign is holding acquaintances to overly high standards, feeling agitated when friends seem likely to abandon you is another indicator. Poor sleep quality, studied through micro awakenings, can reflect feelings of social disconnection. Isolation is a significant sign, as the lonely brain perpetuates distrust and negative thoughts about social interactions. Outbursts and irritability, even while desiring connection, often indicate loneliness. A tendency to push people away despite longing for companionship and experiencing social anxiety when invited out are also signs of loneliness.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Navigating Relationships<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Here are the core pillars of connection, transcending language and geography, derived from extensive research and personal experiences:\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Rapport<\/strong>: Establishing rapport upon first encounter with a stranger. This initial connection forms the basis for further interactions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Commonalities<\/strong>: Using shared interests and experiences to deepen connections. This common ground fosters meaningful conversations and reveals deeper layers of connection, aligning with the social penetration theory.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vulnerability<\/strong>: Going beyond surface-level interactions by sharing personal thoughts and emotions. Vulnerability enhances relationships, transforming casual associations into more profound connections.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Service<\/strong>: Engaging in acts of service and volunteering can combat loneliness and offer a fresh perspective. It can lead to friendships with like-minded individuals who share similar values, reinforcing a sense of connection.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Self-Connection<\/strong>: Developing a healthy relationship with oneself is vital. True engagement with others is only possible when a strong self-connection is established, acknowledging one&#8217;s own needs, thoughts, and emotions.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>These pillars of connection remain effective whether connecting virtually or in person, breaking barriers of language and geography.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Top Q&amp;A Questions and Resources: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How can introverts connect with others without feeling drained while socializing?<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>Introverts possess the remarkable ability to create authentic connections through their skillful listening. When engaging with others, especially in one-on-one scenarios, allow them to express themselves while you listen mindfully. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>How does loneliness manifest based on age?<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>Loneliness is a universal feeling in the body, though its manifestations differ across age groups. A crucial aspect is to stop assuming what loneliness should look like and recognize that everyone, even those who seem confident and connected, might have experienced it. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Resources: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/simoneheng.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Website<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/zp4da3vnebb.typeform.com\/friendshipstyle\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The friendship quiz<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/hayhs.com\/ltal_pp_pb_az\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Let&#8217;s Talk About Loneliness<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sign up to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.courageousspeaking.com\/join-my-mailing-list\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Simone\u2019s newsletter<\/a> for human connection tips<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/simonehengofficial\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/sg.linkedin.com\/in\/simone-heng-speaker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Linkedin<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/simoneheng\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/simoneheng\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Twitter<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@simoneheng?lang=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tiktok<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.threads.net\/@simoneheng\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Threads<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"post-excerpt\"><p>Discover ways to make new friendships, deepen existing relationships, and improve your wellbeing.\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":45,"featured_media":17344,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[127],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - 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