{"id":18142,"date":"2023-11-07T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-07T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/?p=18142"},"modified":"2023-12-22T11:31:48","modified_gmt":"2023-12-22T16:31:48","slug":"recording-spark-more-friendships-this-holiday-season-meetup-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/recording-spark-more-friendships-this-holiday-season-meetup-blog\/","title":{"rendered":"Recording: Spark More Friendships this Holiday Season &#8211; Meetup Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s no secret that community has a major impact on your wellbeing. In fact, women who report the highest levels of life satisfaction also have three to five <a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/blog\/how-to-turn-casual-connections-into-close-friendships\/\">close friends<\/a> on average. In this Meetup Live event, we\u2019re bringing in an expert to talk about building friendships during the holiday season and beyond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Watch Anna Goldfarb, journalist and author of the forthcoming book, Modern Friendship. Goldfarb will talk you through the steps for developing a strategy of closeness during the holidays that will lock in friendships for the long haul. In this hour-long session, you\u2019ll learn to identify the people in your life who are good candidates for connection. Find out how to nurture those relationships to achieve the community and support you deserve.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Recording: Spark More Friendships this Holiday Season\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zdhnyJZGVyA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Main Takeaways <\/h1>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The three components all friendships have:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Desire <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Diligence<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Delight<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Friendships need an &#8220;about,&#8221; a clear and compelling reason that both people seek each other out. You can always negotiate the \u2018about,&#8221; it&#8217;s really just proposing an interest to see if it&#8217;s as compelling to them as it is to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a potential friend doesn&#8217;t reciprocate your desire, one great strategy for catalyzing the desire component in a friendship is to see how you can help your potential friend. I think people are much more responsive to that because you&#8217;re showing that you notice and care about them. In turn, they will care more about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Top Q&amp;A questions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What if you don&#8217;t really have a social circle to cultivate?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Co-working spaces are wonderful for creating a social circle. Not knowing many people seems like a problem, but it&#8217;s an opportunity to find other people who do what you do, and who are also looking to have some cool coworkers. 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