Darling, He’s Not Into You: Stop Pathologizing Rejection

EVENT PRICE: 200 THB
Somewhere along the way, modern dating turned into a diagnostic lab.
He doesn’t text back? Avoidant attachment. He pulls away? Emotionally unavailable. He doesn’t commit? Childhood trauma, nervous system dysregulation, or an inner child wound.
Or... He’s just not that into you.
In this Socrates Café style discussion, we are dismantling the pop-psychology industry that turns ordinary human behavior into clinical labels.
We will explore:

• How attachment theory (originally developed by John Bowlby and expanded by Mary Ainsworth) became Instagram astrology.
• Why not every uncomfortable feeling is trauma.
• The difference between real psychological science and algorithm-friendly "therapy talk."
• How labeling others protects our ego from rejection.
• When "avoidant" is real, and when it is simply incompatibility.

This is not anti-psychology. This is pro-intellectual honesty.
We will question:

• Are we over-therapizing normal human behavior?
• Has self-development culture made us less resilient?
• When does insight become self-deception?
• Is rejection pathology, or is it clarity?

Expect:

• Critical thinking
• Lively debate
• Personal reflection
• No sacred cows

Come if you are ready to challenge narratives, including your own. Because sometimes growth isn't diagnosing others. It is accepting reality without a story attached.
Facilitated by Dr. Stefan Ručman