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Bisexual & Bi-Curious Women and the Women Who Love Them

San Francisco, CA

Bisexual & Bi-Curious Women and the Women Who Love Them

We welcome all bisexual women, bi-curious women and all women who love bi women from anywhere in the nation or world. Please join us once a month for this online support group. As everyone starts to get outside we want to be a safe haven for anyone who is still at home during the pandemic. We require that you sign up with your current face photo so we can verify you are a woman. Please have your video on when entering an online meeting or you will be removed from the zoom meeting. We want to build trust and real friendship throughout time and sharing in mutual reciprocation when it comes to photo and video is a way to get closer to one another. There will be some collaboration with other queer groups throughout the world so we hope that you find this support group connective and expansive for our community. Please spread the word about this new meetup group!  December 2021 Update: Any member who has not been active for over 4 months will be removed. If you are interested in getting together in person once the pandemic is over then you can stay an active member of this group by checking this meetup page every few weeks. Meetup.com will update you as an active member each time you click around on this meetup page (even if you cannot make it to the online meeting). If you are removed please re-submit to re-join the group. You must have a photo (further away with body and face or wearing sunglasses facing the camera are okay if you aren't out ) to retain membership. Thank you everyone!

179 members · Private

Book Club Dropouts

Palo Alto, CA

Book Club Dropouts

ABOUT US: <br>This is a multifaceted social club. Preferential recruitment is extended to LGBTQ people of any gender, but STR8's may be permitted with a chaperone.¹ Those who are keenly in tune with the humor and cultural milieu of Gay Twitter receive additional consideration. We read voraciously (ask us for great queer YA recommendations),² we love to learn, we play bar trivia and mostly lose, we hang out at the park and other outdoor locations, we like board games, we like meeting new people. And, we're very nice.

ABOUT YOU: <br>LGBTQ-identifying or straight but nice about it. Probably (but not necessarily) in your 20's in the SF peninsula area. Looking for friends and things to do. Likes good, wholesome fun. Could be convinced to go for a hike maybe.

STRICTLY FORBIDDEN: <br>- harassment of any kind <br>- homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, derogatory language, or any other behavior that compromises our ability to create a safe and welcoming space for all members <br>

--------------------- <br>The Fine Print

¹You can come if you're straight, you don't actually need a chaperone. It was just a joke. Also, we won't grill anyone about their sexual orientation or gender identity, so you don't have to disclose anything you don't want to share. Let us know your pronouns though. <br>²You may be wondering, "If you love to read so much, why are you Book Club Dropouts?" It's because we actually read way too fast for the pacing of a normal book club, plus we like hanging out more regularly than a normal book club does. It's kinda like an Anti-Book Club-Book Club. Something like that. Plus we do other stuff. And we got really tired of trying to pick a cooler name.

659 members · Public

San Francisco Lipstick Lesbians

San Francisco, CA

San Francisco Lipstick Lesbians

Eyeliner, drawn. Mascara, done. & Lastly, Lipstick added. The San Francisco Lipstick Lesbians meet-up is for the Bay Area lipstick lesbian, femme, and "chapstick" femme community.

This meet-up is for Bay Area/ NorCal femme women identified ONLY looking to make new friends, network, or date other femme identifying women. It's great for femme women new to the Bay Area looking to make friends and get involved in the community.  We are a diverse group of fun, loving femmes ranging from mid-20s to mid-50s that enjoy everything this city offers. Bisexual and Trans-identifying women are welcomed. This space does include single women and women in relationships (committed or open) so please respect that this space is all encompassing for our femme queer women's community. All event's reserved space are strictly for women identified only, this includes guest(s).

For all you femme identifying women interested in joining our group please send a request. To be considered for approval ensure you have these requirements: 1- a clear head-shot photo of yourself (photo should only be of you) so we can recognize you during our events, and 2- your actual first name or nickname; these are required to join and remain in the group. 

The official organizers have a monthly cocktail/ mocktail event in various bar locations in San Francisco, these events are a great way to meet and get to know the amazing ladies of this meetup, so make sure to RSVP and come to those events (usually on Friday or Saturday 6-9 PM); these are especially great for 1st timers. 


Important Information:

MUST BE 21+ AND FEMME-WOMAN-IDENTIFYING AND LOCAL (in Bay Area or Northern California) 

This meetup group is set on private settings; only members can see pictures or other member’s profiles. Profile pictures must be of you and real first name or nickname.

Please do not send unsolicited private messages to members, this platform is created for people to meet in-person at events.

Most events on this meetup allows you to invite one women identified guest*, some events may allow more or none. Please be considerate of this especially given restriction of reserved space. *women identified guests do not need to be femme queer identified, however please respect that this space is created for femme 4 femme connections.

Please RSVP YES if you plan to attend an event to help us keep a true count of the number of attendees (including women identified guests); we normally work with the venue to ensure they have sufficient staff. You will be removed if you show up and do not RSVP as a YES. It is simple - just be courteous.

~~If you have 3 no shows you will be removed, so please update your RSVP to NO if you are not able to attend. A “no show” is when you RSVP YES and not show up or not message the organizer (use comment section or private message) to let them know you can’t make it prior to the event starting. We normally go up to all that attend at each event and introduce ourselves, especially with 1st timers and we do keep track no shows.~~ 

Please let us know if you want to host an event and we can work with you; you can review the message board which has a posting on how to and rules for hosting events; we have a strict rule for only allowing one post per date. Please DO NOT promote your events on this meetup without checking 1st w/ the organizers. 

Keep your membership active by checking out the site periodically, meetup automatically deletes inactive members. You can also be remove at any point at the organizers discretion, we do not tolerate hate or any form of xenophobia in this meetup or drama!


Looking forward to meeting you all!

Sophia A (Organizer)

Cindy K (Co-Organizer)


3068 members · Private

LezBayIns: Lesbians Around The Bay Over 50

Oakland, CA

LezBayIns: Lesbians Around The Bay Over 50

*REQUEST ALL MEMBERS ATTENDING IN-PERSON EVENTS DURING PANDEMIC TO BE FULLY VACCINATED, OR WEAR A MASK (as appropriate to activities) FOR THE SAFETY OF ALL*

Please read our description below carefully before applying and apply only if you are a 50+ Lesbian in the more immediate Bay Area and have a recent/recognizable photo of your full face (no sunglasses) uploaded in your main MU acct. It will accompany your application. This is for security of all and recognizability at events. THANKS!


What do YOU Love to do? This is a MEMBER DRIVEN Meetup...our events/activities come from YOU and ALL are welcome to post/host well organized outings.

We are a community of Lesbians over 50 (sorry, no exceptions) who live in the Bay Area (east, south, north, SF) who want more options to do FUN, interesting, artistic, athletic, intellectual, culinary, outdoor, and indoor activities. The goal is to post a wide variety of interests/locations around the Bay.

***RECENT/CLEAR FORWARD FACING PHOTO OF YOU/YOUR FACE REQUIRED (without sunglasses, mask, hat shade, etc) for security of all and to help identify you at events and avoid voyeurs online. If you have a security issue, write us.

***ALL PROFILE APPLICATION QUESTIONS MUST BE ANSWERED SPECIFICALLY & FULLY.

***CHANGE YOUR RSVP IF YOU CAN'T MAKE AN EVENT. If you NO SHOW consistently, you will be removed from the group.

***HAVE YOUR SETTINGS TURNED ON TO RECEIVE EVENT ANNOUNCEMENTS/REMINDERS AND MESSAGES FROM ORGANIZERS AND EVENT HOSTS. Otherwise, events and important event comments tend to be missed.

***DURING PANDEMIC, IF NOT FULLY VACCINATED, MUST WEAR A MASK


**DISCLAIMER: The organizers and leaders of this group are volunteers, not professional guides. When joining, you agree to attend all events at your own risk. You and your guests agree to hold no one liable in the event of injury or mishap. Hiking, other outdoor activities, and travel to/from events are not risk-free. You are solely responsible for your preparedness and well-being.

189 members · Private

Saheli - Desi girls get together

Fremont, CA

Saheli - Desi girls get together

Saheli is a women's group that primarily connects women of Indian and South Asian origin. It's main goal is to engage and support women; and provide a safe place for them to socialize, build and grow deep, meaningful friendships. We also welcome women of other ethnic backgrounds who are interested in South Asian culture. We strive to be a strong, supportive and inclusive community.

Science has proven that Women who have close female friends are healthier and happier. ​At Saheli women can come together , build connections through 3 distinct categories of activities.
1.Fun
2.Support
3.Empowerment

1. Fun Activities: 
We organize many activities such as potlucks, picnics, camping trips, coffee/lunch/dinner meets, movie nights, Girls night outs, sleepovers, karaokes, musical gatherings, ticketed parties, road trips. We celebrate global festivals together. The larger scale ticketed events in this category helps us raise funds for the Support and empowerment activities listed below. 

2. Support Activities:

*Saheli has started a "Friends in Need" Support group that regularly meets in an intimate , confidential setting (5-10 ladies per session) where women can freely discuss their challenges and share anything weighing heavy on their hearts. They can seek support, help and connections to help them deal with their issues.

*We also volunteer together to support the needy via soup kitchens, donation drives, food and hygiene supply distributions to homeless and many such group activities.


3. Empowerment Activities

*Saheli organizes various workshops such as personality development, meditations, retreats, emotional fitness to help women build inner strength and peace

*Saheli offers emotional fitness and clarity coaching to women.

*Book Clubs -  Women interested in reading and sharing knowledge can join our book club sessions.
We strive to be a strong, supportive and inclusive community.

About The members:

Some of us love to dress up, some of us are happy with just a pair of jeans and a pony tail. Some of us love to cook, some of us only like to eat! :) some of us are from north, some of us from south. Some of us like to dance, some of us would rather be invisible when dancing starts! So you got it! You will always fit in! We accept and love everyone the way they are!

The only rule we follow is : No drama please! We laugh (a lot!!) and most importantly we stick together for the ones in need.

Do not worry if if it is your first time joining us at a meetup and you don't know anyone here. We will make sure that you feel welcome and are comfortable. So join us for any of the meetups without any hesitation. We are a very inclusive group. 

Running a meetup has a significant recurring monetary cost to the organizers, apart from efforts and time investment. However we are able to keep it a free experience for members to be a part of this community. How? Thanks to our sponsors, who chip in to make this happen for you. Let's be grateful to them for bringing wonderful connections, opportunities to have fun and support in our lives.

Here's a list of Saheli sponsors: 

EthnicThread app -  Desi girl's app to buy/sell fashion closet to closet.

Realtor, Heena Joshi Bhagwat

LP Party - Event decorators

Revive Body MD - Body Sculpting & Slim Spa

Neepa G Photography 

Hamsa - The mind Spa (Emotional Fitness and clarity Coaching)

Note: If you want to promote your business or events to Saheli members, you will need to become a sponsor for Saheli. Contact organizer for details.

1583 members · Private

SF Bay Area Queer Women/trans/nb Adventure Group

San Francisco, CA

SF Bay Area Queer Women/trans/nb Adventure Group

Are you a gay/bi/pan woman, trans, nb, ISO community, fun, and all things fabulous to thrive? Here’s your tribe!! Join us for fun diverse activities that will leave us with lots to talk about. Come and bond with new friends on a mini Bay Area excursion, a quickie social, the new “it” thing, etc etc. nothing to BIG or too small if it’s fun, interesting, educational, etc etc. Let’s go check out some fun tgthr…live music, DJ event, a gorgeous hike, latin dance, ballroom dance, go-kart racing, burlesque show, drag-king/drag-queen show, canoeing, art show, comedy show, museum, garden tour, biking, skiing, snowshoeing, chill in the park, beach excursions, cultural events, coffee social, fitness and wellness activities, speed dating, more racy adventures if you’re into that, etc etc., you name it we could be doing it, want to do it, need to know about it so we can eventually do it. Our goal is to connection, support, fun and to bring those adventurous spirits together to create friendships and share what this this blue marble has to offer in our special SF Bay Area space. Some events will be opened for all never, but some may be specific for a subset of our wonderful community. If you’re unsure, just ask the event host of that particular event. Some events might family/kid &or pet friendly (all pets must be well behaved, on a short leash under your control at all times, current w their vaccinations). An event will specify if the whole family is welcomed. Given all the complexity and broad spectrum of people that comprise the queer community these days it can be a sensitive, tricky, difficult, &or just complex endeavor to detail who we want to comprise our ragtag bunch of awesomeness, but let’s try to give it a go and my apologies for any mishaps. We’re a safe space, full of kindness, and all that. we’re open to any and all CisG ladies in the lesbians, homoflexible, bi, pan, & asexual space; all trans folxs; nbys; and all the many myriads that are in this special box of crayons that’s not part of the heteronormative space; and if you’re not sure you fit reach out and let’s talk about it because gender, sexual orientation, and all the rest can truly get a bit sticky. I’ve tried to give it my best and figure it out, but I’m a CisG gay gal with the best of intentions and imperfect. I can say this is NOT the right group for straight CisG women, straight CisG men, or bi CisG men, but the good news is is there are loads of activity groups, events, places, etc etc elsewhere for you. Because we all have the aforementioned peeps as pals they are welcomed to join us as your guest. Currently there’s a 5.99 yearly membership fee. Inexpensive enough that we can all afford it, yet hopefully a fee that’ll encourage active participation from members, help cover the costs of the meetup, discourage lookee loos & window lickers bc far too many join meetup groups and never actually participate, make available greater offerings, and such. This is a local group, but if you plan a visit to the SF Bay Area and want to join one or more of our events we do ask you to reach out to the event organizer to pay the group membership before your first event, rather utilize the free trial period, to support the group. Now, Re COVID: events will be limited as we all navigate Covid, but as more is known it’ll open up to more regular events. We ask you to properly wear a mask, that means over both your nose and mouth, at all indoor events. We also ask you to properly wear a mask to any outdoor activity that’s densely populated and stationary. Ideally you’re vaccinated and if it’s that time for you, boosted. If you’re NOT vaccinated please properly wear a mask at ALL times to any event. As we learn more about covid our policies may change. \*Make sure you’re notifications are turned on for up to date information w events you sign up for..

854 members · Private