What we're about

Men 4 Men

a safe space for men who are attracted to men

We are a group of men (over 18) who are:

• attracted to men
• aspiring towards being at peace with ourselves and living authentically
• committed to a journey of knowing ourselves and how we relate to others and our environment
• exploring and stretching our psychological, emotional, physical, social, spiritual territory whilst respecting each other’s boundaries in a sacred, safe and supporting space
• valuing and building a caring and daring community
• aspiring to live sustainably, valuing our respectful connection with nature

Notice what it feels like when we say: - “All of you is welcome – your shadow and your light.”

Our Events

We aim to offer events that cater for a variety of tastes and pockets. They are held in a secluded setting and we have sole use of the venue creating a safe space that allows a freedom of self-expression to be just who you are. Topics and interests such as massage, drumming, tantra, meditation, working with altered states of consciousness, 5 rhythms, creative arts, connections with nature and storytelling to name but a few are to be explored currently in the following formats:

Connections 4 Men
These one day events are a great way to introduce yourself to this loving and supporting community. They are non-residential starting at 10.30am and concluding at 4.30pm usually held at the weekend.
They are Work, Rest and Play days for Mind, Body and Soul – integrating Doing and Being. The format is an opening circle where we check in with the community followed by a space where we work with others either in the kitchen or on the land. Following a hearty and scrumptious lunch we move to a ritual space of deeper connection – physically, emotionally and spiritually.
The relatively low cost for these events consider the use of the space, that we have exclusive use, the cost of meals and the community’s work contribution to the venue.

Residentials 4 Men
Residential weekends usually start at 6pm on a Friday and finish after lunch at 2pm on the Sunday. They offer an opportunity to build community with like-minded men and connect at a deeper level. They have a variety of themes and related costs and include full board and lodgings.
The cost for these events consider the use of the space, that we have exclusive use, the cost of meals and accommodation and the facilitator’s fees.


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