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What we’re about

This group is for all women in their 30s, 40s and beyond who are looking for fun, supportive and reliable female friends. This can be a difficult age to find and maintain friendships, as people's lives take them in very different directions. We'll bond over a variety of fun events designed to foster real friendships while also exploring the Big Apple--and beyond. Most event sizes will be small and intimate, with a few larger events thrown in.

Please read and abide by these rules:

- For safety reasons, you must upload a clear photo of yourself. I get a steady stream of (creepy) men trying to sneak into this group, so you MUST have a clear photo of yourself or you will not be permitted to join.

- Many events require a refundable deposit to hold your spot. This is to ensure people don't no-show.

- For all events, I will email attendees before the event with my mobile number and any other important info. Please enable emails from this group so you don't miss these emails--or it's on you.

- Please don't flake, please don't cancel last minute, and please don't no-show. If you do this repeatedly or for events with a strict RSVP count, this will result in an automatic ban.

- Please don't show up to an event that you weren't able to get into. This will result in an automatic ban.

- Please do not bring a +1 when +1s are not allowed. This will result in an automatic ban.

- In order to be fair to everyone, it is "first come, first serve" when it comes to RSVPs. I appreciate that it can be difficult to get into events due to the small group sizes, but please do not message me asking for special treatment to get on the yes list or to notify you if you're off the waitlist. If you persist in messaging me, you will be banned.

- Inactive members will be removed.