Divine or Deceptive? Spotting Religious Manipulation in Relationships

“God told me you were the one…”

But what if that voice wasn't divine—just persuasive?

In this eye-opening session, Criminologist Terrance Findley and Relationship Engineer Ryan Assi unpack how spiritual language and religious framing can be used to manipulate, rush, or control romantic decisions.

Whether you're religious, spiritual, or simply curious, this event will offer a balanced, psychologically-informed look into how faith and fantasy can collide in the dating world—sometimes with dangerous consequences.

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### What You’ll Learn:

• How some people weaponize religion to fast-track intimacy or silence boundaries
• Why phrases like “God sent me to you” or “You’re my wife and don’t even know it yet” can be red flags for manipulation
• How spiritual gaslighting differs from authentic faith-based connection
• The psychology behind religious grooming and romantic control
• How to spot coercion cloaked in conviction
• Signs of a healthy faith-led relationship vs. a manipulative one

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### Who Should Attend:

• People of faith who are dating or navigating early relationships
• Those healing from past religious or spiritual trauma in love
• Coaches, counselors, or leaders who want to better support their communities
• Anyone who has ever felt rushed or pressured in love “in the name of God”

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### Format:

• 45-60 minute presentation
• 30-60 minute open-floor discussion + Q&A
• Anonymous chat option for vulnerable questions

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### Why This Matters:

Faith can be a powerful force for good. But when it's used to bypass logic, pressure decisions, or manipulate commitment—it becomes a tool of control, not connection.
This is a space where we’ll approach the topic with respect, clarity, and compassion—but without shying away from hard truths.

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### Hosted By:

Criminologist Terrance Findley
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Relationship Engineer Ryan Assi