Suggested viewing before we meet (5 min video): https://youtu.be/du035tg-SwY
How can one calm down by discerning between what someone else does and what they meant to do?
Why are we not very good at perceiving motives in the incidents that frustrate us?
Would we be calmer around adults if we could resort to the poise we use around children?
How can one focus on the source of agony that drives the person maddening you to act in appalling ways?
Let's think about it!
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