Pub Talk: Orgasm Myths - Decoding Magnificent Sex Beyond Penetration

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In this interactive, evidence-based session, sex coach Lea Holzfurtner reframes the concept of sex by sharing a sexological definition: sex is any activity that gives you sexual pleasure. We'll unpack where the sex-script came from (sex ed, porn, gender norms, culture), why it sticks, why it's not "natural," and how to replace it with your own, pleasure-centered script.

We'll cover:
• Myth‑busting: Why “penetration is the real sex” doesn’t match how many bodies experience pleasure.
• Redefinition toolkit: Using the sexological definition to build a menu of activities that genuinely feel good to you.
• From performance to pleasure: Dismantling pressure, spectatoring and "shoulds" while welcoming curiosity and consent.
• Communication that works: Wants, boundaries, invitations, and check-ins without killing the mood.
• Practical, non‑graphic exercises: Pleasure mapping, yes/maybe/no lists, small experiments, aftercare.
• Designing magnificent sex: Context, time, arousal accelerators & brakes, and what people actually need to thrive.
• Q&A you’ve always wanted to ask.

About the speaker:
Lea Holzfurtner — Certified Sex Coach & psychological counsellor; author of "Dein Orgasmus"; member of the Deutsche Gesellschaft für Sexualforschung and the World Association of Sex Coaches; evidence‑based, sex‑positive approach informed by Masters & Johnson, Kinsey, Kaplan, Beverly Whipple and others. Recently appeared as a sexuality expert on RTL+'s "Stranger Sins."

Details:
• Date: Wednesday, 29 October 2025
• Doors open: 6:30 p.m.; talk: 7:00 p.m. Stay for discussion & drinks.
• Location: Belushi's Berlin (Mitte), Ziegelstraße 28, 10117 Berlin
• Language: English
• For: Curious adults of all genders and orientations — no prior knowledge required.
• Age: 18+
• Notes: This is an educational talk. No nudity or sexual activity on site.

Wheelchair‑accessible venue. Be respectful and non‑judgmental. This event is not a substitute for professional medical or therapeutic advice.

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Because pleasure deserves better than guesswork. Let’s talk!