
What we’re about
Hi everyone! 👋 Welcome! I'm so glad you're here.
The mission is to create a cozy, welcoming space for introverted women in their 30s and 40s to connect over a shared love of reading, without feeling overwhelmed or "on" all the time. We will focus on smaller groups, thoughtful conversation, and a relaxed, no-pressure environment.
Format:
- Meet Twice a Month:
- First Meetup: Fiction Book Discussion
- Second Meetup: Non-fiction Book Discussion
- November and December are usually pretty busy, so we may decide to hold informal get-togethers for those months.
- Group Size:
- Each event will be limited to 6 participants maximum, including the organizer.
- Smaller groups = easier conversations, more connection, less overwhelm.
- Format:
- Meetups will last about 1.5–2 hours.
- We'll meet at cozy spots (like a quiet cafe or restaurant).
- No formal presentations — just casual discussion guided by a few light conversation prompts.
- It’s 100% okay just to listen if you’re feeling quieter that day.
- Book Selection:
- A mix of popular, literary, cozy, and thought-provoking titles.
- Members can suggest books, and we'll occasionally vote on future selections.
- Selections to be announced at least 1 month in advance to give time for reading.
- General Vibe:
- Calm, welcoming, non-judgmental.
- No icebreakers, forced games, or putting people on the spot.
- It's okay if you don’t finish the book — you're still welcome to come and listen.
I'm open to all feedback, so please don't hesitate to comment or reach out.
Looking forward to meeting you soon — in the calm, introvert-friendly way we all appreciate. 🖤 Courtney
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- FICTION: Beautyland, by Marie-Helene BertinoCafe Leila, Berkeley, CA
For this event, I've chosen this sci-fi read by Marie-Helene Bertino. I'm not usually a sci-fi gal, but I admit that the description and the beautiful cover drew me in! Sometimes you need to ponder what it means to be human. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/127282939-beautyland
"Beautyland, named after the 'dash-to-in-a-pinch supply’ store that, along with Auto World’s floppy inflatable man, are totems from Adina’s childhood, is written in a dry, matter-of-fact style, befitting of a novel where the protagonist sends daily memos to a home world she’s never seen. But it’s not dull. Most certainly not. I could easily spend the rest of this review quoting Adina’s hilarious, poetic, and wise observations. Here’s a selection: 'I require speech lessons and corrective lenses, and most likely teeth braces. I am an expensive extraterrestrial’/ ‘Adulthood seems like a yearslong equation to beat traffic’/ ‘The ego of the human male is by far the most dangerous aspect of human society’ (to which the aliens respond: THIS HAS BEEN WELL DOCUMENTED) / ‘Death’s biggest surprise is that it does not end the conversation.’ My favourite line from the novel isn’t from a fax, but rather: ‘Adina smiles at the girl in the mirror. The girl in the mirror, bound by physics, returns her smile.’ It somehow typifies everything brilliant about Adina and this book." - Ian Mond, LocusMag
*This event will be held at Cafe Leila on San Pablo Ave in Berkeley. They have a large back patio, so hopefully we can sit outside. You can find their menu here: https://www.cafeleila.com/menus
Please reach out if you have any questions. Thanks!